I've been living alone for the past 5 years and about a year ago I discovered vacuum sex, WOW!! Best I've ever had, however I have recently met a very lovely lady, with whom I have sex with on a regular basis but I cannot blow a load, no matter how long I keep at it, I am hoping that this only temporary since she took my vacuum away. I am in my 8th day of no PMO or VAC because it is my sincere desire to please my lady, and myself, can I expect a recovery from this malady in the future if I continue to stay away from the VAC. Thanks for any educated input. granpappy0