Nothing turns me on or off,its just gone and I want it back. Heres the story, I went to confession and didn't admit i masturbated felt bad about it and I wanted to quit, so I guess I kinda quit, When i did masturbated after that, I couldn't, something wouldn't let me something inside me kept saying no and it did not feel as good as it use to.....days after days horniess decreased till i do not feel horniess anymore, also after this my testical have been hurting, idk if there connected. im 14 if that helps. I just want to stop masturbating and want to get my horniess feeling back. i get erections of stuff that would "turn me on" but not the horniess. IS this mental and how can i overcome it??? thanks.
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Hi hon: I just wanted to let you know that the biggest sex organ in your body is your brain!!!! So with all of this guilt you have put on yourself your brain or sub conscious is making you less turned on. You are a 14 year old boy hon!!! I'm surprised you even have that much control. I have read the bible, I don't remember ANYWHERE in it stating it is a sin to pleasure yourself! So ease up hon. Did you know that babies in utero (still in the womb) touch themselves? And babies touch themselves ALL the time! It is COMPLETELY UTTERLY natural to masturbat, ESPECIALLY at your age. You go to confession for sins right? Pleasuring your own body is not a sin sweetheart, it is completely natural. Just like a poodle rubbing itself on your leg!!! o.O XD ;-) So take it easy on yourself, you don't have to tell anyone about it. I remember walking in on my son when he was 4!! He said - because I must have looked like this o.O - "It's OK mommy I like to make it dance and point towards the ceiling!!!!" XD :$ o.O I told him that it is totally normal and closed the door and went and had a stiff drink!!! ;-) So just relax, "Take job in hand!! - as my 85 year old grandmother said to me!!!!!!! o.O " And just enjoy being a normal healthy teenage boy OK? Good health hon!
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ok, but how can i feel that again? I mean i loosened up and can do it but it doesnt feel turned on anymore. :-(. like it i want to do it but i do not feel it....sigh.
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ok but how can i start feeling horniess again? i mean i can masturbate, but it doesnt feel like...turned on....:-(.any advice?
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should i see a doctor...also I have a pain in a testicle...could that have something to do with it....im kinda upset that I lost that feeling and really want it back...idk what to do :'( i mean all i wanted to was masturbate not lose this feeling.How could i reverse this mental loop???? :-(?
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Relaxing is the 1st step, even though you have said that you have loosened up, it is still in your mind - due to you wondering about not mentioning it in confession. I would never suggest porn, because I think it is a money maker for dirty old men! And you never know what these young girls have gone through. BUT that said, try and get your hands on a Playboy, or even a Maxim! I even buy my boys the Sports Illustrated Swim Suit Edition magazine.!!! that seems to help them keep "healthy" ;-) and YES I am THAT COOL!!! ;-) 8) It will take a little while for you to get back to feeling turned on, it's just your conscience taking over that's all. AND remember this, EVERY masturbating teenager out there before you and now, all feel "guilty" for masturbating, they htink that they are the ONLY ones doing it and there must be something wrong with them. Just like when I used to sing in the mirror with my hairbrush, I thought I must be the only one singing like this!!!! I'm not right?!!! ;-) :$ Anyway hon, relax, don't stress and it WILL return!! There's nothing wrong OK?
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A very dear friend of mine when I was a teenager was very "Virile!!!" So he started running, this is helpful on both sides. The 1st if you are OVER like he was, then it is a way of keeping your mind off of it. On the other side, it is extremely relaxing. Also I am a great believer in meditation for ANY teenager. You guys are bombarded everyday 24/7 by texting, cell phones, video games, tv, music. That you have lost the art of relaxing. Just sit in a quiet room - or have some really soft music in the background. Sit on the floor or your bed and just focus on breathing. IN through your nose, and out through your mouth - just regular breathing or you will pass out! Just get intouch with relaxing your mind and body!
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aye im nervous that i wont feel it again :-(,how long do you think i can get the "guilt" out of my conscience?
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im nervous that i lost the horniess for good :-(...im nervous....how long do u think this will last....im..very worried...and r u sure i can retrieve it?
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Honey you are a 14 year old boy i GUARANTEE your "horniness" WILL be back!!! XD o.O Just don't stress out about it! It might not be the horniness that is on your mind you know? It could be worries about school, family, your friends. Stress is the number one reason for physical problems, ESPECIALLY sexually related. So you need to just not think about it and it WILL return. Don't get caught up in all the hype, it is best to be able to just be turned on when you want too. Unless you might end up walking around with a pitched tent all day at school!!!! o.O :$ Believe me it WILL come back and you WILL be fine. I know this is VERY important to you right now, you just need to not think about it, get outside hang out with your friends just be a normal teenager and I GUARNATEE in a few months you will be back on this site BEGGING me for advice that how to stop your OVER Horniness. Just take it easy and breathe!!!! Enjoy your life, look at pretty girls walking by, and just have fun OK?
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ok so pretty much i have to stop thinking about it all the time and just focus on otherstuff? when i forget it and its out of my conscience i shall be normal again?
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Exactly, you conscience runs your feelings of right or wrong. Just think to yourself that there is NOTHING wrong with masturbation, get that in you mind aka conscience, and just forget about it till the moment arises. Your ALREADY normal hon! Just overwhelmed that's all. Everthing WILL be just fine, get out and have fun!!! XD
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i cant stop thinking about it, i dont think it about as much but i can just 4get it, I do distract myself but not always....if i think of it at all will it affect how long it will take, and whats a good way to tell myself that masturbation is alright?
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