Last year around May 2008, i found out i was pregnant, but at the time i wasn't ready, and my family also told me i also wasn't ready, so i got an abortion. An till this day i am very sad that i did not keep my child. But me and my BF keep trying we have been trying for the past year now and still nothing. At time i would come late on my cycle but then i would come on, take a test and find out that i am not pregnant, and be very disappointed. I would like to know am i unable to get pregnant now since i got an abortion,is my insides messed up, and if they are, how am i able to know. I really want to get pregnant, and my BF also wants a child. For the past two weeks my breast have been itching very bad, around my nipple i have many bumps(not nasty bumps) and last month my cycle came then stopped for two days then came back for one day.
So am i able to get pregnant again, i dont want to take a test again because i dont want to be disappointed again.
So am i able to get pregnant again, i dont want to take a test again because i dont want to be disappointed again.
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Dear Nykeisha: As long as your abortion was done by a reputable doctor - ie. clinic, hospital. You should have no problem whatsover getting pregnant again. What I suspect from your post is that you are HIGHLY stressed about getting pregnant again and this is affecting your reproductive system. Stress is a HUGE factor when it comes to short term infertility. I'm sure you have heard of stories of women trying for years with trying to get pregnant or Infertility treatments, they then come to grips with it, adopt a baby and WHAM they are pregnant. The pressure you are putting on yourself and the saddness and possible guilt you feel from having the abortion IS affecting you emotionally and physically. Take some time out and not concentrate on it OK? Usually it can take up to a year for a normal healthy woman to get pregnant - even though it seems can only take a week for a normal healthy teenager ;-) XD o.O JK. So take it easy on yourself, don't beat yourself up over what has happened. And if after a couple more months of just trying WITHOUT the pressure and still nothing. THEN seak out medical help. It might not be you, your BF boys could be slow swimmers!!!!! So take a breath, exhale and get rest from this punishment you have put on yourself. Because you will need all your strength, when you do get pregnant and bring home your new baby!!!!! OK? Good luck and health hon!!!
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