16 years old with Masturbation issue :S

Hi honey! Masturbation is a TOTALLY NORMAL AND HEALTHY part of puberty and beyond! Your sex drive is the same as anyone elses, it's just that when you are a teenager, your hormones can rage and ebb at different times! One day all you do is walk around with a popped tent!!!! and other days NOTHING will peak your interest! The acne is ALL to do with your hormones, which will correspond with your masturbation urges! Obviously you have been told that Masturbation is a bad and dirty thing, which is VERY unfortunate! This can have terrible affects on teenagers selfimage! Did you know that babies inside the womb touch themselves? ALL mammals masturbate! in particular Poodles!!!!! ;-) XD XD o.O It means that we are sexual beings and alive! Nothing more nothing less! I always remember walking in on my eldest son - he was about 4 at the time - and he was "pleasuring himself" and I must have looked like this o.O o.O Because he said "It's OK Mommy I just like to make it dance!!!!!!" I told him that he should do this in private and with the door closed, I have ALWAYS told my boys it is a normal thing! And that EVERYONE does it! They just don't want to think about EVERYONE doing it!!! ;-) So you are NOT dirty, You are NOT immoral or anything else negative, you are just a NORMAL HEALTHY teenage boy! And once this whole puberty thing is out of the way, you will be able to control yourself more! Even grown men get erections at inappropriate times! That's when it's time to take a seat and think about Zombies!!!! ;-) XD XD So embrace yourself, and just keep it private, and know that EVERYONE you know is doing it too! Just don't mention it to them that's all!!! Good luck and health honey!

Masturbation is good because it provides for the need to ejaculate semen, is fun, pleasant, enjoyable, safe, healthy, normal, harmless, contributes to prostate health, relieves sexual tension, and pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Masturbation aids sleep when done before bedtime. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Masturbation leaves one with a feeling of relaxation, contentment, and well-being. One cannot get an STD from masturbation.Masturbation should be done in a place where one has privacy. Favorite places are in the shower or in bed at night.

There is no lower or upper age limit for masturbation. Some pre-school boys masturbate and some elderly people masturbate at least into their late seventies.One may masturbate as much or as little as one wishes, however one may experience temporary sexual exhaustion due to very frequent masturbation.Three times a day works well for many teens.1. Do it before school in the morning. This helps you get through the school day without being excessively h*rny.2. Do it after school because you have gone a whole day without masturbating.3. Do it before going to sleep. This helps with restful, sound sleep. 

The movable, internally-lubricated, nerve-laden erogenous foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation.Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It failed to stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable.How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. It is not necessary to retract the foreskin. The outer foreskin glides over the inner foreskin. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations. Foreskinned males must be careful not to tear the frenulum.Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction irritation is common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva.It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have friction irritation if he does not apply external lubricant.After a male ejaculates, there is normally a “refractory period” before he can have sex again.  During the refractory period, the penis becomes hypersensitive and one cannot continue sexual activity.