so I had sex with my bf on the 10th without a condom. my period is due the first-ish week of January. now I dont know if im pregnant or paranoid. my bf pulled out before he came, and I saw that he pulled out then came . I'm on holiday now and I think I caught the flu I think, my thigh muscles are aching and ive got ringing in my ears, and a lump in my throat that hurts when i swallow. my nipples started to hurt a little a few days ago and were really stiff, but they're okay now. please help. I want to know if I'm just paranoid of being pregnant or what. at first I was really convinced that I wasn't pregnant but know I don't know what I'm feeling. please help :( I've also have slight weird feelings at my abdomen like a poke worth of pain. I don't have any early pregnancy symptoms or anything. so am I just paranoid? please help :(