my bf and i had never had sex before so he was trying to make himself fit but he kept pulling out bc he was going to cum..this happened 5 times. its been a week since then and i got my period on time but its very light..i'm only 16 so i'm not sure what this means. could i be pregnant? just to clarify it wasnt in all the way and he pulled out before he came and this was on the 14th and 16th, today is the 22nd and i got my period (i know he should have worn a condom but he thought he could control himself) please please help me
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Not only should he have worn a condom, you should be on birth control. That aside however, I think you should wait a day or two and see what your preiod does if it gets heavier or not between now and then. Pre-cum can make you pregnant even if you didn't have full on sex, even touching can do it though it is more rare than regular sex.
If your period starts to get heavier then you don't have to worry but if it stays light then I suggest you take an HPT test. From now on please please please take the b.c. pill and wear a condom (your boyfriend I mean) did you even have him tested for HIV or other std's? You should ALWAYS make your partner show you those papers of clearance, now-a-days you cannot trust ANYONE even if you think you can. Condoms are not 100% effective even when used properly and pulling out doesn't do much to prevent pregnancy either.
My husband and I use the BC pill, condom, AND pulling out to prevent pregnancy so that is about as safe as you can get...please speak with your parents/guardians about getting the bc pill, it really is better than risking getting pregnant. They would most likely rather you are practicing safe sex than not practicing safe sex and getting pregnant
Anyway, just see how it goes and have a talk with your mom, or a female adult about this that is close to you. I know it is hard but in the end they will appreciate that you spoke with them about it instead of not talking to them and then having to reveal a pregnancy later down the road.
Good luck hun.
If your period starts to get heavier then you don't have to worry but if it stays light then I suggest you take an HPT test. From now on please please please take the b.c. pill and wear a condom (your boyfriend I mean) did you even have him tested for HIV or other std's? You should ALWAYS make your partner show you those papers of clearance, now-a-days you cannot trust ANYONE even if you think you can. Condoms are not 100% effective even when used properly and pulling out doesn't do much to prevent pregnancy either.
My husband and I use the BC pill, condom, AND pulling out to prevent pregnancy so that is about as safe as you can get...please speak with your parents/guardians about getting the bc pill, it really is better than risking getting pregnant. They would most likely rather you are practicing safe sex than not practicing safe sex and getting pregnant
Anyway, just see how it goes and have a talk with your mom, or a female adult about this that is close to you. I know it is hard but in the end they will appreciate that you spoke with them about it instead of not talking to them and then having to reveal a pregnancy later down the road.
Good luck hun.
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