im only 15 1/2, a sophmore in high school. i grew up in a catholic school my whole life, and well i dont like being known as the good girl at my public high school.
by now, most people at my school are having sex, well these days, who isn't?!?! my close group of friends are strongly against it, except for two girls. one isnt a virgin anymore, and the other one, like me, it very curious. the only thing is, im afraid of pain/bleeding, and im afraid that im willing to do it for all the wrong reasons. i mean, i have a boyfriend, and i KNOW a few of the girls he's had sex with, so im not going to with him. but for the future, how do i know im actually ready? i have all these feelings inside me like i am ready, that im not afraid, but also that im not gunna be "prude" anymore.
now how do you sneak this around? haha. thats what i wanna know.
by now, most people at my school are having sex, well these days, who isn't?!?! my close group of friends are strongly against it, except for two girls. one isnt a virgin anymore, and the other one, like me, it very curious. the only thing is, im afraid of pain/bleeding, and im afraid that im willing to do it for all the wrong reasons. i mean, i have a boyfriend, and i KNOW a few of the girls he's had sex with, so im not going to with him. but for the future, how do i know im actually ready? i have all these feelings inside me like i am ready, that im not afraid, but also that im not gunna be "prude" anymore.
now how do you sneak this around? haha. thats what i wanna know.
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It doesn't sound to me like you are READY to have sex, just curious about it. That's totally fine. This is a great time to study up on sex (as funny as that sounds...) so you know techniques and how to protect yourself when you ARE ready. It can hurt the first time but it doesn't for some people. Just depends on how turned on you are/how big the guy is/how tight you are/if your hymen is broken or not/etc.
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To me i will strongly tell u dat its not wat u want,dont think bcoz everyone is doin it u wanna do the same,ur virginity is ur pride,u will never forget whosoever u give ur virginity to,sex is worth waitin for,as u grow da urge to try it and see how it feels like increase but u will av 2 control it,u own ur body u can control it,it will be a big regret for u if u av 2 loose wat money can never buy (UR VIRGINITY) In the hand of who aint worth da sh*t.my gurl wait for the right guy.
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