Adequate time for losing your virginity

The issue of losing your virginity is a very personal matter, there is no certain age when one can say that you are allowed to do it, it all depends on you and your maturity and readiness to become sexually active. Medically speaking sexual organs in young girls like yourself aren’t mature enough and aren’t prepared for sex, if you have sex now it could damage your sexual organs. The damage will be repaired but there is more chance of causing you pain and discomfort. Yet, no girl is like the next one, some girls are more mature than the others, I don’t know how mature you are so I can't give you any advice on that matter. The first time having sex for most girls is very painful since vagina is not used to penile penetration. Also pain and bleeding can appear as a consequence of the breaking of hymen. If you feel like you are ready for it and if you feel that you trust your boyfriend then I think that you should do it – after all there is a first time for everything. If you still have some fears and questions about it, then it would be the best to schedule the appointment with a gynecologist and ask him or her for an opinion about this issue.

hi.yah i have to agree with the person above me the left a comment. hey im still a virgin you know. but u know what just bez u love him doesnt mean u guys have to have sex. when ur ready go rgiht ahead. don't make him let you do something u dont want to do. hey listen to me love is always gonna be out there. just ask ur love if that love u guys have right now will change after wards??

It is NOT too early. I lost my virginity when I was turning 13!!

First time doesn't hurt, provided the guy knows what he is doing and has got you well aroused and "wet" before penetration happens. If you are not "wet" enough I would advise you to use lube.

Make sure you are having an orgasm or have already had a few while/before he starts penetrating you. It should feel like something is stretching. There is NO intense pain. Maybe a bit sharp.

Also, bleeding is extremely minimal. There are no rivers of "sacrificial blood" that happens with first time sex. 

Remember sex is very enjoyable and should be a fun experience. Make sure you understand your body and what brings you a lot of pleasure. Masturbation will help you understand your own body and your needs. Clitoral stimulation is a must if you want to be aroused and ready.

I am 16 and will be 17 in February. I just lost my virginity Monday. DO NOT RUSH IT. If you don't think you are ready don't do it. And if he really likes you he will wait. It does hurt a little bit but it is different for everyone. I have not bleed at all. I was very scared myself, but I did it. Also if you are going to do it and you are not on birth control, make sure you use a condom. I made the mistake of letting him take off the condom and now I am scared I could possibly be pregnant. I don't want you to be in the same spot. Loosing your virginity should be a special time for you not a very stressful thing like it has been for me. I hope this has helped and if you have anymore questions I would be happy to answer them.

Totally agree. Should be fun and should never be stressful. Of course there will be an element of anxiety as with anything you do for the first time.
The key is to be prepared because you never know, sometimes these things can happen suddenly. Always be prepared. When I say prepared I mean keep reading and learning about yourself, sex, understanding how your body responds by masturbating and feeling comfortable about it all. Then you need to know about pregnancy and STDs. These are the most important aspects and I keep repeating these to everyone I cross paths with who are about to embark on their first sexual relationship. I think people make a huge mistake by telling us girls that sex should only happen when we are ready. Hell no. No one can ever be ready!! BUT you can be prepared and that helps much more that trying to work out when we are "ready" There is NEVER a right time. Things happen. Spontaneity is part of the thrill. If you are prepared you can enjoy sex at anytime and not worry about those consequences of pregnancy and STDs and those concerns do not need to weigh heavily on ones mind.
So my advice - BE PREPARED !! You never know when the opportunity strikes. That way you will also be able to enjoy with no fuss or stress.

can I ask you a question? How do you know you are "ready"
Isn't it better to be prepared so you can better handle sex when it happens.
Even at 25 and 30 women are not ready for sex.
There is this misconception that readiness is so important. I think being prepared is much more important and necessary before having sex.
Preparedness involves - a) understanding your own body through masturbation and reading up about sex and things that go with it b) understanding about pregnancy and what needs to be done to avoid falling pregnant c) understanding - a general aspect about STDs and prevention d) avoiding drugs and alcohol e) having a nice partner not a frigging rat bag of a guy who will treat you like dirt after sex.
Those are things to work out NOT "readiness"

I would like to know about how much time is required for a couple for postmarital sex? Or it depends on mutual satisfaction of a couple involved in sex?

Are you talking about post marriage and when to start having sex?
Most would have sex on the wedding night. Again, no hard and fast rule. It depends on how comfortable they both are to fulfill this expectation.