At 40 I have only been intimate with 2 men one of which I was married to for 17 years and rarely had sex with. I just started dating a man and feel very inadequate when it comes to oral sex. What can I do so it doesn't seem like I don't know what I am doing?
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Hey darlin',
Like all sexual acts its based on experiance, the more the do the better you become. Im like you, ive just started doing oral on my boyfriend. What I would say is while you are doing oral to your 'partner' ask him what feels nice, what does'nt and tell him to tell you when you feel good and where does'nt ... basically just communicate and listen to each others bodies!!!
hope i helped
kee
xx
Like all sexual acts its based on experiance, the more the do the better you become. Im like you, ive just started doing oral on my boyfriend. What I would say is while you are doing oral to your 'partner' ask him what feels nice, what does'nt and tell him to tell you when you feel good and where does'nt ... basically just communicate and listen to each others bodies!!!
hope i helped
kee
xx
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Well, you could buy a book in which you could read about oral sex wisdoms. Just joking. There is no much actually. There are few basics you should know. First, don’t approach penis right away but playa with him, touching and kissing his balls (not in a way it would tickle), lick his penis from time to time, touch his inner thighs. The most pleasurable spot on penis is the spot where the frenulum connects foreskin and the head. Stay there a bit longer but not too long.
Once you move onto the penis, use your lips but not your teeth. Squeeze your lips real hard and you could also make a ring with your thumb and point finger and place it just under the lips. This way it looks as if they’re entering a place that is real tight and warm.
Move up and down, touching his balls along the way, applying pressure on the perineum from time to time and you will do just fine. Enjoy!
P.S. KeeKee is also right!
Once you move onto the penis, use your lips but not your teeth. Squeeze your lips real hard and you could also make a ring with your thumb and point finger and place it just under the lips. This way it looks as if they’re entering a place that is real tight and warm.
Move up and down, touching his balls along the way, applying pressure on the perineum from time to time and you will do just fine. Enjoy!
P.S. KeeKee is also right!
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We have only dated for 2 months and I do not feel comfortable asking him. He seems to be very shy and not a big communicator. Not even in bed... He seems to enjoy it he just doesn't say anything.
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Hi darling, Getting oral sex is one of the most pleasurable feeling for a guy... trust me we men just love the thought of someone goin down on us.
Firstly remember that the tongue is the most useful thing during oral sex... treat your boy friends penis like a juicy lollypop.. hold the penis aroud the shaft.. keep alternating between sucking (not too hard), kissing and licking.
Start lickin with the tip of your tongue around the base of the penis and work your way up to the head.. pause here and play around a little here. Flick your tongue in all directions.
Swallow the entire penis in your mouth.. start sucking slowly and go up and down along the penis shaft. Increase pace gradually (avoid any contact wit teeth)... Also dont forget to play wit his balls... but be very very gentle with them.
Tug on them lightly and caress them while sucking his penis. Also lick them wit your tongue.... do this and trust me he will be cuming just the way you want him to. enjoy :-D
Firstly remember that the tongue is the most useful thing during oral sex... treat your boy friends penis like a juicy lollypop.. hold the penis aroud the shaft.. keep alternating between sucking (not too hard), kissing and licking.
Start lickin with the tip of your tongue around the base of the penis and work your way up to the head.. pause here and play around a little here. Flick your tongue in all directions.
Swallow the entire penis in your mouth.. start sucking slowly and go up and down along the penis shaft. Increase pace gradually (avoid any contact wit teeth)... Also dont forget to play wit his balls... but be very very gentle with them.
Tug on them lightly and caress them while sucking his penis. Also lick them wit your tongue.... do this and trust me he will be cuming just the way you want him to. enjoy :-D
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