My doctor put me on the birth control pill because my mestrual cramps and hemeraging is very bad and comes throughout the month and not just at that specifis time. After 3 weeks of taking the pill I have been experiencing a bad mood towards my boyfriend. I dont want him to sleep over or even spend time with him sometimes. He tries to talk to me and help me but instead it is frustrating me and we end up arguing. I have no desire in kissing, cuddling or even hugging him. I have also just recently seperated from my husband and have not yet finalized my seperation papers either. I have just purshased a new home with my boyfriend and I get frustrated because he helps with everything including laundry, dishes and my daughters. I know its great but I'm certainly not used to the help and I tell him all the time since the last 3 weeks that I need space. I dont want to lose him. Could this all be because of taking the pill or because of early menapause and how can I control it?