I have been on the birth control pill for 6 weeks now as per doctors orders because I have been experiencing extremels bad menstrual cramps and irregular bleeding throughout the month instead of just that particular time. After three weeks on the pill I have been in a wierd mood. I have been pushing my boyfriend away as in sexual activities, ( once in 3 weeks) I dont even let him hug, kiss or even cuddle with me. I have seperated from my husband but not yet finalized papers . My boyfriend and I have recently bought a new house together and he is frustrating me but has never before the pill. He is very helpful around the house, dishes, beds,laundry etc... I've never had this help from my husband and it is now bothering me. Is all of this side effects of the pill or is it early menapause? I dont want to lose him and if this keeps up, I will. What do I do?