Please advise i think i am losing it my wife but first she was my Girlfriend at a point well the EX. the story is that i know the eX he is now my brother in law , and i cant help but think abouth what they had when they where toghether cause i saw it all kissing hugging she wanting him to be close to her ,when i met her she wasnt with him well that wat she said they where like EX more than 3 or 4 months when i met her, well then i saw them kiss 1 time in a party we where both there me and the ex and her (not my girlfriend at the time) and i saw them kissing in 1 room my thoughts then was maybe they got back toghether so i asked her sister to ask her and she said no i was OK then why u kissing ur ex, after couple of weeks we where playing in the back yard her ex me she sister many friends and he walks up to her from behind she expected him to do that and they kissed. when i saw that i exploded (not my girlfriend then but i liked her very much), and the most frustrating thing is that he wass banging my girlfriends sister while he was with my girl ( note my girl was a virgin when we married) . and they ended up marying eachoder the ex and my girls sister, 2 days after that we started dating,but she was different even with kissing and hugging i saw and felt that she was thinking about him and still had fellings . i dont gett that if you breack up with ur ex cause u saw him kiss ur sister ,how in the blue hell u still kiss him and w8 for him to come to you specialy when u warrent toghether for 3 or 4 months . well after that we got married havbe kids been toghether 11 years now but i still ask her about why she was like that with him and so different with me . she said i think it was cause i have been used with him more that with you.i sayd hou can that be he is ur ex and he was kissing ur sister and u saw and beack up. i said there where fellings there realy big,since day 1 when i saw them i cant stop thinking how they where. and specialy i know that my brother an law knows my girl u know with kissing his hands all over her even if she was a virgin when we married i still dont know what happened with her at that time and the thing that boders me i fell for her at first site ,i am starting to feel that she married with me cause he married her sister. have a look at my story and comment thanks