I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, we share a 1yr old, and are all three living together happily, although we are not married. I am 22 and boyfriend is 37. We haven't had sex in over a year. Perfect relationship otherwise, just find that we are not on same page, when it comes to sex... he does not initiate sex, and because of this, i feel that something is wrong, so i don't initiate neither.... it drives me mad...and making me insecure about my body, i am nicely figured, though a little short.... what do you think is his problem?
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i know how you feel we have had sex 3 times in 10 mths always had xcellent sex life. i feel unattractive and unfeminine and insanely jealous of any woman he looks at or speaks to because he pays me no attention, he is in a well known backpatch bike club so there are plenty of women hanging around.
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Communication is the key. How will you know whats up if you don't ask.
You just have to come out with it. Hey hon, do you have a minute, we need to have a talk. Bam, start talking.
You just have to come out with it. Hey hon, do you have a minute, we need to have a talk. Bam, start talking.
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I know exactly what ur feeling, its not a good feeling either. Im 29 & have been with my husband for 14yrs, married 10yrs. As of right now we havent had sex or any type of intimacy like hugging, kissing, making out, holding hands etc...for FOUR YEARS!! I am just now totally fed up with it, he doesnt give me answers when I bring it up, I just discovered he has been masterbating to dirty pictures if girls he has downloaded onto his cellphone which just adds to my frustration & immense pain. I love him soooo much & want to be married to him for the rest of our lives but it looks like im going to have to make a drastic change soon, either that or live the rest of my life feeling unloved, unwanted, ugly, & feeling all alone. I let this carry on way too long. If ur in this situation, Please dont do what I have done & just le myself be so miserable & ruin my self esteem. Talk to him, if that gets u nowhere then seek help or separate while u work on ur relationship, I regret not trying to fix this issue sooner because the last 4-5yrs have been so sad for me! Just today I made the decision to move inti my own place & working our marraige. I think that me not being around all the time for him will make him see what he really has & possibly miss me & change his ways & if that doesnt happen than atleast I will find out sooner than later that I need to move on so I can finally be happy again & not just sit back & go through this for the rest of my life. Thanks for reading this, any comments or advice would be greatly appriciated.
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Hi, :-P
My case is bit reverse. I have been working in middle east for last 10 months and my wife with my daughter is back home. We chat almost daily and she is taking care of my kid very well. But with me, I am very much desperate to have sex. Some time when sex desire becomes too much I masturbate and comfort my self. For last 10 months no sex completely.
My case is bit reverse. I have been working in middle east for last 10 months and my wife with my daughter is back home. We chat almost daily and she is taking care of my kid very well. But with me, I am very much desperate to have sex. Some time when sex desire becomes too much I masturbate and comfort my self. For last 10 months no sex completely.
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