Hi, I'm 18 male and just got a new girlfriend. There were a couple occassions in which we wanted to have sex but I made up an excuse because when I masturbate I ejaculate very fast and I'm just wondering is it possible that I won't orgasm as fast during sex? Please help, thanks to anyone that does.
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It's possible but its unlikely. Chances are if you cum fast from masturbation you will cum more quickly from sex. The easiest way to get past that though is just to start having sex and practicing lasting longer. Almost everyones cums super fast the first time anyways (in seconds, even) so theres nothing to be embarresed about.
When you aremasturbating also try to make yourself last longer, it might come in handy for sex.
When you aremasturbating also try to make yourself last longer, it might come in handy for sex.
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The one thing about masturbation is the sole purpose is getting yourself off, so the thought process for longer lasting sex is not there. When your inside a woman's vagina or anus, the thought process should be differant in that you want to last longer to give her more pleasurable sex, instead of just getting your rocks off.
If you find yourself starting to feel that feeling to ejaculate pull out wait a few minutes while you finger her clit to keep her hot and aroused, then after re-enter her slowly.
Use your mind to consintrate on making yourself last longer and longer. You'll find it is much more pleasurable to her for the length of time you can last, and your orgasm will be much more explosive.
I'm 50 yrs old and can still go for a long time... some times if feels like my penis is numb from the process, and have seen her get off multiple times as a result, and have had multiple orgasm's myself by using mind control.
You have nothing to loose and all the pleasure in the world to gain from this.
If you find yourself starting to feel that feeling to ejaculate pull out wait a few minutes while you finger her clit to keep her hot and aroused, then after re-enter her slowly.
Use your mind to consintrate on making yourself last longer and longer. You'll find it is much more pleasurable to her for the length of time you can last, and your orgasm will be much more explosive.
I'm 50 yrs old and can still go for a long time... some times if feels like my penis is numb from the process, and have seen her get off multiple times as a result, and have had multiple orgasm's myself by using mind control.
You have nothing to loose and all the pleasure in the world to gain from this.
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This is what i was wondering when i was younger, And the answer is you can last longer in sex then masterbation! I found it out, Because when you do your thing you know just how to do it making you cum fast. With a girl its diffrent its just a simple in an out. the grip you have maybe more then what the girl is offering. Just go for it i say and dont worry if you cum you cum if you dont you dont its all gravy :-).
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Masturbation a way of getting off quickly..even when getting a good blow job, I take 4-10 minutes whereas in the shower its over probably in 2-3 minutes
Intercourse is a bit more...from what I hear its normal, but I have experience
some younger guys are advised to ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** off before meeting the girl...not always a good idea...one CAN learn control frm masturbating...when you feel orgasm is coming , stop stroking and resume in a minute or two..
Intercourse is a bit more...from what I hear its normal, but I have experience
some younger guys are advised to ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** off before meeting the girl...not always a good idea...one CAN learn control frm masturbating...when you feel orgasm is coming , stop stroking and resume in a minute or two..
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Hi im 14 and i want to know if i can cum anyquicker when i masturbate because it takes around 7-10 minutes for me to cum. Thanks = )
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When I jack off I cum in like seconds !!:( & I dont want to do the same thing when im having sex I want too take a longer time to cum !! How can I stop cumming fast & take longer ?
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Practice. Tell your girl "I don't know how long I'll last, so let's go a couple rounds, ok?" You'll never know til you find out. You'll last a lot longer the second and third times, and you won't have to feel embarrassed if you talk about it before hand. If it's your girlfriend, she should be like "Hey, more sex sounds fine with me."
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Well for your age, I'd say put a little bit of lotion on your hands and rub it around.
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If you are standing up when masturbating then it will take longer for you to ejaculate. But if you sit down and lean back when masturbating you can cum in <1-2 minutes. In a shower you can also lean against the wall as well.
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Im 19 now and when i lost my virginity at 17 it was quick but as you do it more you gain more stamina..... I can jack off for 3 minutes and cum but i can also have sex for an hour straight now. So if u jack off and cum quick don't worry about it. practice makes perfect
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When having sex with a girl you should always try to keep your legs far out and locked, because if you feet are in together the blood is closer and and can travel really quickly... That's pretty much all it is. That being said you should have sex standing up more often for example she lays on the bed and you do her doggy style standing. This will help you last much longer than if u were both laying down and doing missionary. If you wanna ejaculate fast while masturbating you should do a butterfly stretch with your feet and use your dominate hand to do the work and the recessive hand should be behind you lifting your butt off of the ground and while doing so you should flex your butt and thighs... Trust me this will make you cum in less than minutes.... I have mastered this and my record is around 20 seconds... This is very useful if you are In a hurry. I do have a gf and I can still satisfy her for as long as 30 to 40 mins at times without cumming.
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Dude I'm 18 & I've been having sex since my 13th birthday & I last 1-2 during sex yet jerking off I only last 12mins it's all in your mind bro. Just f**k her brains out with a condom till you ready & know you won't cum when you f**k her raw.
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so would it be good gor my boyfriend to materbate more often to get better at sex .he last only 6seconds then he ejaculates
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