I cum very fast and don't last long during intercourse?

Hey there Michael let me assure you that you are compleatly normal and you can have kids!! Your issue is nearly entirely mental you have to learn to control your urge and orgasm. Some peoe practice this my masturbating until right before theybejaculate then stop and let the sensation die down and then start again. Not only will this help you last longer it will also increase the amount of semen you produce. It is never a good idea to compare yourself to anything you see In porn. There are many tricks that make a guys penis look bigger and they can attach tubes that shoot fake semen all over and make it look like a guy ejaculates a ton. The average amount of semen ejaculated is only about 5ml or. 1 teaspoon

I have sex or like handjobs or blow jobs like everytime I go out to my girlfriend we both just a turned on and sexual couple we can't help it and when I can't see her ill be at home and I jerk off alot but I cum fast sometimes I can't last long say for exsample I jerk off first I cum then like 1 hour or less I last longer its the same when my girlfriend comes over I get a blow job or hand job and I cum fast then after that I try sex and I last kinda long sometimes I can last long even without having to jerk off, so If I practise jerking off when I am about to cum do I stop and hold it in? And wait a few seconds and start again? Is it bad for you if you do that and sometimes I feel like I cumed and my penis just goes soft :/ so will this go away ina few months or when I'm older it's really embarrassing when I'm with my girlfriend doing it so I just practise and practise this while jerkin off I don't use condoms while having sex cause she has the pill can you give me some tips while jerking off that can help me thank you for thanking you time out of your day thanks :)

It is really quite normal to climax so quickly when you're a teen. Regular sex and masturbation, and just time, will sometimes help you last longer. Once you're in your 20s and if this is still an issue, you can ask your doctor for information about premature ejaculation. (You can now, as well, but they will probably just tell you to give it time.)

As for how to last longer in bed overall, and satisfying your girlfriend, I'd really encourage you to go down on your gf before you have sex. That way you know she's having a good time (ask her to tell you what she likes of course) and the focus gets taken off your orgasm a bit. You may feel more relaxed, which will help you last longer all in itself.

My problem is that I don’t last long when I am having intercourse, but I last a lot longer if I am having BJ. What to do?