I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we haven;t had sex yet. The thing is I am virgin and have always been careful, because I wanted it to loose it with the person I loved and cared so much. I do feel it with him. Since I told him i was so ready... BOOM 4 attempts and it failed. He would get hard but we he is about to get in he looses it. I don't know if it is me or him!
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Hi Besrat,
It is NOT you.
Is he a virgin? Anxiety will cause a guy to lose his erection very fast.
Is either of you using protection? It can help reduce that anxiety.
If he loses his erection don't focus on it. Do something else with him, cuddle, give him oral or just feel his body/penis. Even better, ask him to do something to you until he's ready again.
Again, don't make a big deal of this. All guys "lose it" occasionally. Once he gets through it the first time he should be good.
Hope it helps.
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