My bf and I have been together for 4 months. He was a virgin before we started having sex. I have more experience than he does. The first few times we had sex it was perfect. But recently we've tried having and he can't get it hard. He cant stay turned on for long and loses focus. Its worrying both of us esp him as he does not know what's going on. I am very hot and he finds me very sexy and is emotionally very attached to me. Ive tried different things to turn him on but he cant keep it hard for long. He's getting really depressed about it and cant even think of being with another girl. What do we do? Is it a medical problem or something to do with nerves? Please help!
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Hi. This was a problem for me and my boyfriend at the beginning of our relationship so I know how you feel. What we found helpful was completely relaxing and taking things very slowly. Men can sometimes be pressured to get or keep and erection, and the constant stress and worry of this situation won't be helping matters. Also if you plan sex then chances are he won't be able to perform, as sex is supposed to be spontaneous. Setting a time and date for him makes him feel pressurised and the stress won't help him perform. If the problem continues then I suggest you go and have a chat with a doctor or nurse.
Hope things get better soon
NCG xoxo
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same thing happens, i can get it up its not that i have ed, but sumtimes it jus goes and isnt as hard as it should be , that is really stressfull and i dk wat to do , imma try working out and laying of porn etc to see wat happens
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