Okay. I am dating a guy who is 17 and I am 16. I am not a virgin but he is. Here's why: he can't get hard. He has had two other girls try and have sex with him that he was going to do it, and this was well before me, but he never got hard for them to be able to do it. We were friends for a long time before he asked me out so we are very comfortable together and we have talked about it, but he doesn't know why he cant get hard. Well we tried a few days ago to do stuff and he wasn't hard like at all. He said he can make himself get hard and cum but no girl has ever been able to.I know he is nervous but he swears up and down constantly that he is comfortable and everything and we just laught it offf because we are very close and I don't want to push him. What is going on??
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Hi Guest,
As you said, he's nervous.
Nervousness or anxiety will kill an erection. There could be many reasons for it, fear of pregnancy being a big one. Just be patient with him and work with him. Don't focus on it. It sounds like you're doing this so it should help.
Give him time.
Hope it helps.
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Does he feel this is going to lead to having sex? Maybe he's really afraid of having sex and/or the possible consequences.
Try going about it as simply masturbation and make sure he knows you don't expect sex if you get it to work.
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