:cry: We are new married couple (4 months complete) still we didn't have sexual intercourse. Whenever we tried to make it his penis first erected and when i tried to push his penis inside to me the erection will lost and it's back to normal as before. Iam very much worried about this and my husband's age is 28 i think he is masterbating for the past 16-17 years . He is doing it daily (once, twice or thrice a day). I want to know this erection problem is because of this regular masterbation. what should we do to make the intercourse successful. If he continues to masterbate is there is any problem in the future.
Kindly advice me.
Kindly advice me.
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It's not a result of masturbation, however if he masturbates successfully then it is obviously not erectile dysfunction either. This means that the problem is in his head. He is probably so worried about being able to perform and perform well that he is losing his erection. What you should do is: 1) convince him to stop masturbating; this will probably make his penis "want" to stay hard so it can eliminate the semen he's storing or 2) relax him (sexy baths/showers for two, messages, handjobs/blowjobs prior to sex, etc). Once he stops thinking about sex, he should be able to have sex.
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Dear Prabha,
This is a very common problem for Indian men who have remained virgins until their marriages when they are typically around 30 years of age. This is not a problem caused by masturbation. When you try to have intercourse does your husband ejaculate when you are trying to insert his penis into your vagina? If he is having a premature ejaculation than it is caused by his over-excitement of finally being with a female after waiting so many years for sex.
When men are highly excited they can typically have an orgasm and then regain an erection very soon after their initial erection has subsided. I suggest that you bring him to orgasm quickly by using your lubricated hand, spit on him, or use a lubricant like KY Liquid, or use your mouth if you like. Remain close with him. Kiss him, talk sweetly, or talk dirty. Run your hands all over his body. Show him how you'd like to be touched. Let him use his finger or tongue to explore your body. Ask for what feels good to you and what you are comfortable with. Soon, he will become excited again and have a second erection. When he has his second erection try intercourse again. He should be able to last longer the second time.
Don't get discouraged. It takes practice. You and him should practice pleasing each other in the ways you desire. Over time he will develop the ability to maintain a longer erection. The worst thing you can do is complain or blame him, get upset or discouraged because this will mentally make him feel pressured and will prevent him from being able to relax and perform. Be positive! Tell him you will keep practicing! Plan romantic evenings together. Be warm and affectionate and you will bond together and feel more comfortable sharing your bodies.
This is a very common problem for Indian men who have remained virgins until their marriages when they are typically around 30 years of age. This is not a problem caused by masturbation. When you try to have intercourse does your husband ejaculate when you are trying to insert his penis into your vagina? If he is having a premature ejaculation than it is caused by his over-excitement of finally being with a female after waiting so many years for sex.
When men are highly excited they can typically have an orgasm and then regain an erection very soon after their initial erection has subsided. I suggest that you bring him to orgasm quickly by using your lubricated hand, spit on him, or use a lubricant like KY Liquid, or use your mouth if you like. Remain close with him. Kiss him, talk sweetly, or talk dirty. Run your hands all over his body. Show him how you'd like to be touched. Let him use his finger or tongue to explore your body. Ask for what feels good to you and what you are comfortable with. Soon, he will become excited again and have a second erection. When he has his second erection try intercourse again. He should be able to last longer the second time.
Don't get discouraged. It takes practice. You and him should practice pleasing each other in the ways you desire. Over time he will develop the ability to maintain a longer erection. The worst thing you can do is complain or blame him, get upset or discouraged because this will mentally make him feel pressured and will prevent him from being able to relax and perform. Be positive! Tell him you will keep practicing! Plan romantic evenings together. Be warm and affectionate and you will bond together and feel more comfortable sharing your bodies.
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masterbation is good for health if you are interested i can tech you HOW TO DO A sex
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ask your husband to leave the habit of masturbating and also ask him not to put penis into your p***y at once first try to get finger into your p***y and after that insert penis
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ple dont wory about it this is not a big deel ok mam u sholud need good atmostwear ok
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Your husband case is not due to masterbation. Masterbuation gives full relaxsation to body and mind. This may be a case erectile disfunction. But in ur case u can erouse ur husband penis by sucking his penis, showing him blue flim before intercoures and by taking out pleasure noise, which will make his mind total involvent in sex. A lady has got many methods to erouse penis of male. U try any one this method or else pls show him to good sex doctor.
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Dear Friends.
I want to share my exp. Also. In first time only few people can perform nicely. Because the complete love(sex) requar time,place,atmospher and errectation.
I want to share my exp. Also. In first time only few people can perform nicely. Because the complete love(sex) requar time,place,atmospher and errectation.
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Give him to silden 50mg one tablet or silagra 100mg tablet. But he has high blood pressure or same kind of problem do not use it.
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HI Prabha,
Its noting at all about worry.just finish your first shot while oral sex and after 10 min u make him exited to do sex again.and it will be good and long sex
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This is nothing but performance anxiety dont worry spend some time and prctice regularly .sure u will have a sweet of it.dont use such drugs unless a doctor prescribes.first ask him to practice to hav erectiin for a long time
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This is not a problem. This can happen in many new couples. Many of the couples didn't share this experience out becoz they feel little uncomfortable about this saying. As per my experience, i had a sex with my wife only after the 5th night. we also worried like you. we planned and went to some honey moon places and tried intercourse there. It will help to success. Also pl be frank with your husband and tell him to masterbrate before one hour while coming to approach you. While the time he can get some mood about intercouse and he will not premature ejaculation of sperm. This is what i followed and successfully running. This is only for first 5 times then your husband will get ready for any time intercourse and he can plan himself for making good intercourse.
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