I am 20 years old and my husband is 22 when we are just playing around and I am sucking his penis he is able to get and stay hard but when we actually go to have sex he losses his hard on pretty fast. I don't believe it's me because my vagina stays right. I do kegal Excersises two times a day so it stays tight. Its two finger tight. I weigh more then I should but idk if that's the issue because I have always been this size. We have been married since December 27th and have not had successful sex one time since we have been married. We never had sex before marriage because I had been used for sex before and wanted to wait till marriage.
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Have you tried to talk to him about it? I'm sure it's a touchy subject with both of you.
There are so many reasons why this would happen. If he is open to it, I would first see a psychologist. It could be anything and it may just take some suggestions from a third party. I know this sounds embarrassing, but it could really work. If he's able to keep an erection during things other than sex, I doubt that it's a medical issue and requires pills. If you want to message me, please feel free. I would love to hear how it works out for you. I'm here if you just need someone to talk to.
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Thanks Jen. I'm just embarrassed about this because I have never had an issues with this with a man before. And I don't know if it's me and I'm just not that attractive to him or what.
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Hi Mrs Basham, I understand your husband's dilemna to some extent. I'm the same too, I'm 29 and I haven't had sexual intercourse either and so it may be nerves and anxiety that is causing him to lose the erection. The few times that I have tried same thing happened to me. I could say so much more about this and my story.
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