Ok well me and my girlfriend are both virgins and we decided to lose it together the other day. We were both pretty nervous and in the start it was really hard for me to get an erection, I dont know why this happend since it wasn't a past problem and it kept going down when I finally managed to get it up. After about 10-15min I finally managed to get it up and then during intercourse my girlfriend complained a lot about pain. It wasn't the easiest thing to get it in since I wasn't completely hard and everytime I did get it in she complained about really hard pains so we tried some more foreplay to get her more...wet which did work but even with that she still complained. We managed to get it done and had a pretty good run for about 20-30min. But I still want to know how can I lower her pain level for next time and now can I manage to get a faster and stronger erection.
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It hurts for her because she hasn't had sex before and she probably wasn't fully excited. It will still hurt for her a couple more times but not as bad as this time. You need to finger her before y'all have sex and do a lot of foreplay. For you, you need to not think about whatever your thinking about when you try to get it up and stay focused on her. Like play with her boobs or something like that and make out with her before and during sex. don't be worried about not being able to get it up because then you will not get it up. And she also should finger herself at home to loosen up a little. For her, it probably won't feel good until y'all have had sex a little more than a couple times. But keep trying and eventually it will feel great. Hope this helps :)
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