i cant get hard when im with my girlfriend
sometimes we end up not having sex but i really want to but i just cant get up we tried a lot of foreplay and she was ready and i was sorta then i got in her it wasnt that great and she didnt feel much either
is there something wrong with me?
im 18
sometimes we end up not having sex but i really want to but i just cant get up we tried a lot of foreplay and she was ready and i was sorta then i got in her it wasnt that great and she didnt feel much either
is there something wrong with me?
im 18
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Hi there - unfortunately this happens A LOT more than people think - or talk about. A whole lot more. So don't think there is something wrong.
Being able to stay hard is so psychological. Just being afraid that you won't be able to maintain an erection can keep you from maintaining an erection! If you are able to stay hard without any problems when you are masturbating - then you know that everything works ok, and your issue is your mind!
Just try to relax - and not be worried, or nervous (which is much easier said than done). It will happen for you - but maybe you aren't 100% ready yet...and your body knows!
Good luck!
Being able to stay hard is so psychological. Just being afraid that you won't be able to maintain an erection can keep you from maintaining an erection! If you are able to stay hard without any problems when you are masturbating - then you know that everything works ok, and your issue is your mind!
Just try to relax - and not be worried, or nervous (which is much easier said than done). It will happen for you - but maybe you aren't 100% ready yet...and your body knows!
Good luck!
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are you sure, i think i know the problem i think i masturbate to porn too much lol. i masturbate a lot i remember i use to get really excited watch porn now im just ok its become a passive thing. can permanent damage be done if i masturbate too much or watch too much porn?
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No - you can't do damage from normal masturbation. Your body can't tell the difference between masturbation and sex. Now - I guess it is possible that your mind has become desensitized to things that would normally be arousing due to excessive porn. BUT - again, if you're still able to maintain an erection while you masturbate then you know that the parts are working ok!
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I think Taz has given a brilliant explanation. A lot of maintaining an erection is mental. Don't think about it too much and it'll come (in more ways then one, no less).
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