Now i know im not the only one who has had this problem, but im 20 years old and have a beautiful girlfriend and we are both virgins. We have had the opportunity to have sex 3 times (1 time i got sick so i dont think that counts (long story)), Im a university student and live with my parents so i dont have to live on residence and she will come over and we will cuddle and sh*t and i can get an erection when there is someone in the house and we cant really have sex, but when everyones gone POOF! its gone (thats where i find myself differing from the other guys who posted). I haven't told her and she doesn't do oral and rarely grabs below the belt, so i tried to go into the bathroom and masturbate (not to orgasm, but to get it hard) and it didn't really work, so i dont know what to do! If anyone could help me out, im not usually stressed about anything but this is killing me...
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Hi Guest,
Stress will kill an erection.
Find someplace where you can be alone and have some privacy. Also, use some protection. It reduces the anxiety of her getting pregnant.
It's very normal for a guy to have trouble their first several times. You'll get more relaxed as you have more sex. Nothing is wrong with you. She should understand that nerves can make this happen.
Then, focus on her and not yourself. OK, so you lose your erection. Don't panic. Perform oral on her or anything, just don't worry about yourself. The goal shouldn't be just you getting off but pleasing your girlfriend. Let your body "go along for the ride." When your ready, you'll know.
Hang in there. Good luck.
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