ORGASIMS I CONT GET THEM

As long as you get off when you masturbate, then there's nothing wrong with your gear, just the equipment manager. Most likely if you are fairly inexperienced sexually there are a number of concerns in your mind when you are with a partner: Will I cum too soon?, Will I cum too late?, Where will I shoot it when I cum?, Will she be disgusted?, Will I get it on her?, Will this ruin our relationship?, Will I cry afterwards?, and What's the capital of Zimbabwe?. To calm your fears, let me answer those questions: maybe, maybe, wherever she'll let you, maybe, if she's generous and you're lucky, maybe, hopefully not, and Harare. To solve the first two issues of cum time, practice when you masturbate. Learn how to speed up and slow down your orgasm. As for where to shoot it and if you'll get it on her, follow her lead, she'll likely let you know. If she doesn't, tell her when you get close to orgasm and she certainly will then. As for if she will be disgusted or if sex will ruin your relationship, then the answer should be no if you are in a loving, committed relationship, or at least both mature enough to be consensually ready for sex. If the sight of you shooting a load freaks her out, then you're not ready to be having sex, period, as a lot of sexually mature women find this sight very arousing. As for crying, it shouldn't happen unless you are a very emotional person, wimp, and now that you know about Harare your mind should be clear. All this being said, your problem is mental. If you will simply calm down and relax you should be firing (pun intended) on all cylinders in no time.