Help! My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time a few days ago. Neither one of us were virgins but it had been a while since either of us have had sex. But because it had been so long and he was rather “blessed”, there is now a white and dry patch on my perineum(?) and it hurts like crazy. I know it has to heal and it’s normal but there has to be something I can do to lower the pain. Help?