Ok. I noticed it about 2 weeks ago but it didn't start getting worse until recently. 

It started hurting going to the bathroom a little over 2 weeks ago. the i noticed it started to get even more and more painful. i haven't had sex in the last 2 and a half months so its not that. 

this week it hurts so bad to go to the bathroom. it feels like there is a tear on the inside. and i have been putting zinc-oxide cream on the area for the past week and it feels like there is a cut or rip starting from my anus to about halfway to my vagina.

about 2 days ago i discovered the rip had actually torn farther toward my vagina. it discharges a white liquid at times but it doesn't have a smell. the area itches alot. the area hurts but its getting worse. and today i went to the bathroom and it hurt so bad i didn't want to eat the rest of the day.

my mom said just keep putting that cream and neosporin on it and it will get better. but i really need to go to the GYNO to get it checked. its not healing and it hurts so bad. its hurts to lie down on any side. 

i think its a Perineum Tear (area between vagina and anus) but I think it is reverse. please help what should i do. and please tell me how this happened.