i need help, i have a problem..... (im a virgin)
when i am with my girlfriend, and we are kissing and/or holding eachother, when i get aroused and i get an erection, seamen leaks out of my penis.
not much comes out but its enought to make me uncomfortable.
i hide it, but i have told my girlfriend about my problem.
it has been happening for a year and a half now and also,
about 5-7 hours after this happens my penis and testicals ache and pain.
i have no idea why this happens
and i have just learnt to put up with it
but i would really apreciate any help you can give me
thank you
when i am with my girlfriend, and we are kissing and/or holding eachother, when i get aroused and i get an erection, seamen leaks out of my penis.
not much comes out but its enought to make me uncomfortable.
i hide it, but i have told my girlfriend about my problem.
it has been happening for a year and a half now and also,
about 5-7 hours after this happens my penis and testicals ache and pain.
i have no idea why this happens
and i have just learnt to put up with it
but i would really apreciate any help you can give me
thank you
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This is normal my friend. I think you may be suffering from "Blue Balls:"The term was first used by ice fishermen in Minnesota to describe the painful condition caused by the penetration of extreme cold into the genital region. Later it was adopted to describe a medical condition which caused a similar feeling as the cold related effect. Blue balls is a slang term for a temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male. It is most commonly associated with adolescents[citation needed] but can occur in any sexually mature male. It is often accompanied by a cramp-like ache of prostatic congestion and pain/tenderness of the testes. While the term is sometimes applied to women, the female homologue is usually referred to by the more general term "pelvic congestion".[citation needed]
The Cause:The main cause of blue balls is prolonged sexual stimulation of the erect penis, either by direct or indirect contact, that does not result in orgasm and ejaculation. This can, in some circumstances, be a consensual sexual act as part of erotic sexual denial.
During arousal in a sexually mature male, the parasympathetic nervous system decreases its inputs to the genital tissues, resulting in increased blood flow to the testicles and prostate areas. As this happens, other fluid outflow muscles constrict, causing more bodily fluid to enter the area than leave, ensuring a high enough regional blood pressure to allow a sustained erection for penetration during sexual intercourse.
If orgasm is not achieved, blood and lymphatic fluid tend to pool, and the blood becomes oxygen deprived. The technical term for this is vasocongestion. It can be extremely painful, like a hit to the testicles, but from the inside.
Men with priapism or orchalgia may experience an extreme, prolonged form of blue balls, which may require medical attention.
Treatment:The easiest way to relieve the symptoms of blue balls is through an orgasm[citation needed]. The resultant ejaculation jump-starts the sympathetic nervous system, which increases blood flow through the groin area, dissipating the fluid buildup. Even without orgasm, the symptoms of blue balls usually subside within an hour of onset, but they can also last much longer, up to 3 hours. While well known in folklore, there was scant information in the medical literature until an article by Chalett and Nerenberg in Pediatrics 2000 which found little formal data regarding the condition but concluded that "the treatment is sexual release, or perhaps straining to move a very heavy object — in essence doing a Valsalva maneuver." Simply lying down can also sometimes help the pain associated with blue balls.
One folk remedy for blue balls is the cold shower. Putting cold substances (such as ice) on the crotch region significantly helps. One source [1] states that "the cool water of the shower would stimulate new warm blood to the scrotum," but local cooling might instead work by causing arterioles in the scrotal skin to constrict, thus decreasing blood flow to those tissues and allowing fluid to leave the congested areas. On the other hand, soaking in a hot bath can help as well.[citation needed] Also, physical exercise like walking, climbing stairs etc, can ease the engorgement. Sometimes drugs containing pseudoephedrine can help quicken the process; however, availability of medicine containing pseudoephedrine is limited in some countries. Analgesics do not generally help as they do not involve prostaglandins.
Attempt to return blood flow through any possible way. If pain doesn’t go away within a reasonable amount of time, then seek medical attention as soon as possible for serious injuries may be present.
The Cause:The main cause of blue balls is prolonged sexual stimulation of the erect penis, either by direct or indirect contact, that does not result in orgasm and ejaculation. This can, in some circumstances, be a consensual sexual act as part of erotic sexual denial.
During arousal in a sexually mature male, the parasympathetic nervous system decreases its inputs to the genital tissues, resulting in increased blood flow to the testicles and prostate areas. As this happens, other fluid outflow muscles constrict, causing more bodily fluid to enter the area than leave, ensuring a high enough regional blood pressure to allow a sustained erection for penetration during sexual intercourse.
If orgasm is not achieved, blood and lymphatic fluid tend to pool, and the blood becomes oxygen deprived. The technical term for this is vasocongestion. It can be extremely painful, like a hit to the testicles, but from the inside.
Men with priapism or orchalgia may experience an extreme, prolonged form of blue balls, which may require medical attention.
Treatment:The easiest way to relieve the symptoms of blue balls is through an orgasm[citation needed]. The resultant ejaculation jump-starts the sympathetic nervous system, which increases blood flow through the groin area, dissipating the fluid buildup. Even without orgasm, the symptoms of blue balls usually subside within an hour of onset, but they can also last much longer, up to 3 hours. While well known in folklore, there was scant information in the medical literature until an article by Chalett and Nerenberg in Pediatrics 2000 which found little formal data regarding the condition but concluded that "the treatment is sexual release, or perhaps straining to move a very heavy object — in essence doing a Valsalva maneuver." Simply lying down can also sometimes help the pain associated with blue balls.
One folk remedy for blue balls is the cold shower. Putting cold substances (such as ice) on the crotch region significantly helps. One source [1] states that "the cool water of the shower would stimulate new warm blood to the scrotum," but local cooling might instead work by causing arterioles in the scrotal skin to constrict, thus decreasing blood flow to those tissues and allowing fluid to leave the congested areas. On the other hand, soaking in a hot bath can help as well.[citation needed] Also, physical exercise like walking, climbing stairs etc, can ease the engorgement. Sometimes drugs containing pseudoephedrine can help quicken the process; however, availability of medicine containing pseudoephedrine is limited in some countries. Analgesics do not generally help as they do not involve prostaglandins.
Attempt to return blood flow through any possible way. If pain doesn’t go away within a reasonable amount of time, then seek medical attention as soon as possible for serious injuries may be present.
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im not a male but i know about this.everyman when there doodle get hard they leak out seman thats just part of being aroused.and for after your penis gets soft and your not turned on anymore your private parts are gonna hurt any for a female when your turned on your blood builds up and your ready to cum and you dont that what makes your penis hurt .i sugest to jack off .hehe :$
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