hello,
i'm a 20 year old and i just tried to have sex for the first time...
Foreplay went great, i felt we both enjoyed.
but when we came to penetration(actually started at the using of the condom) i noticed that my penis wasn't erect enough.
whatever i did or thought about, nothing could really arouse me. and after some trying, probing , we gave up...so much for my first experience :$ :'(
some causes i think might have something to do with it:
i had a few drinks(but was still very sober)
i was nervous
some friends said we probably shouldn't, that thought was stuck in the back of my head
please tell me what could be the cause, or what could help me, i'm very afraid it'll happen the next time...and i don't want to disappoint her...
i'm a 20 year old and i just tried to have sex for the first time...
Foreplay went great, i felt we both enjoyed.
but when we came to penetration(actually started at the using of the condom) i noticed that my penis wasn't erect enough.
whatever i did or thought about, nothing could really arouse me. and after some trying, probing , we gave up...so much for my first experience :$ :'(
some causes i think might have something to do with it:
i had a few drinks(but was still very sober)
i was nervous
some friends said we probably shouldn't, that thought was stuck in the back of my head
please tell me what could be the cause, or what could help me, i'm very afraid it'll happen the next time...and i don't want to disappoint her...
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hey.
Come on mate such things happen, especially when you are anxious.
Same thing has happened to me and i discovered it was purely psyhological later on.
Hmmm one thing that certainly goes through your mind is pregnancy. Talk about it with the girl and remember you are all doing this to enjoy yourselves nothing more so relax!!
Another thing that may get you in thoughts is what happened with me.
If you feel guilt about what you are going to do, the soldier wont get to battle nomater what you do.
to be more specific such things happen if you love your girl but you go to bang another one....
anyway you will be fine my friend just relax and enjoy yourself. ;-)
Come on mate such things happen, especially when you are anxious.
Same thing has happened to me and i discovered it was purely psyhological later on.
Hmmm one thing that certainly goes through your mind is pregnancy. Talk about it with the girl and remember you are all doing this to enjoy yourselves nothing more so relax!!
Another thing that may get you in thoughts is what happened with me.
If you feel guilt about what you are going to do, the soldier wont get to battle nomater what you do.
to be more specific such things happen if you love your girl but you go to bang another one....
anyway you will be fine my friend just relax and enjoy yourself. ;-)
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thanks for that man^^ feel alot better now
there is another thing.
after we tried a bit, it seemed to me that it went in a little, even though i felt nothing of it. so you could say there was a bit of penetration, but with no feeling, almost not mentionable(of cource i wore a rubber, wich might've not been nessecery)
anyway, i left the (practically unused) rubber on for quite some time after we tried stuff, before removing it in the bathroom. thats where i saw it was broken
i don't know when it happened, it's very probable that it broke long after we 'tried'.
still, the worst (but unlikely) case scenario is that there was minor penetration with a half erect member, with a broken condom...
and i'm worried. should i be? i'm sorry, this might sound stupid, but i really want it off my chest
there is another thing.
after we tried a bit, it seemed to me that it went in a little, even though i felt nothing of it. so you could say there was a bit of penetration, but with no feeling, almost not mentionable(of cource i wore a rubber, wich might've not been nessecery)
anyway, i left the (practically unused) rubber on for quite some time after we tried stuff, before removing it in the bathroom. thats where i saw it was broken
i don't know when it happened, it's very probable that it broke long after we 'tried'.
still, the worst (but unlikely) case scenario is that there was minor penetration with a half erect member, with a broken condom...
and i'm worried. should i be? i'm sorry, this might sound stupid, but i really want it off my chest
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Hola. I am the same "guest" that answered the 1st time.
If you did not cum inside your girlfriend and you have never experienced precum, the chances are veeery little.
but then again if the oposite happened the chances are little again. Kids arent made that easily.
Hmm i would sudgest you took the next day pill though, you can find it in drug store and costs arround 50$.
Ok advice for the next time.
ALWAYS USE CONDOM
DONT put it on unless you have a firm errection.
If its on and you "soften" use another condom, when you are back hard
During the intercourse check every now and then if its ok and then continue
Ah think seriously to disguss this with the girl if shes understanding
And try to remember when you got out of her for the last time how was the rubber
cheers
If you did not cum inside your girlfriend and you have never experienced precum, the chances are veeery little.
but then again if the oposite happened the chances are little again. Kids arent made that easily.
Hmm i would sudgest you took the next day pill though, you can find it in drug store and costs arround 50$.
Ok advice for the next time.
ALWAYS USE CONDOM
DONT put it on unless you have a firm errection.
If its on and you "soften" use another condom, when you are back hard
During the intercourse check every now and then if its ok and then continue
Ah think seriously to disguss this with the girl if shes understanding
And try to remember when you got out of her for the last time how was the rubber
cheers
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