I'm 19 years old, and have a problem with a new girlfriend. We had been seeing each other for a couple of months before I asked her back after a night out, and I couldn't get it up at all. This was a few months ago, and I was still a virgin. This was before we'd even done anything else before (I pressured myself into asking her back to mine), only kissed. We then didn't try anything for over a month, and then she started experimenting. I wasn't fully hard, but quite hard for the couple of times she went down on me.
Now she's my girlfriend, and we tried having sex again last week. We hadn't planned it, we were just making out and it happened. I was again quite hard (though not fully hard), and she was on top of me for a while, it wasn't really doing anything for me, and I couldn't feel much. I eventually just went soft after about 5 minutes. Naturally she thinks I don't find her attractive and that she doesn't turn me off, and she was even in tears about it when we talked about it the next day. I've obviously done what I can to convince her that is not that case, she is a gorgeous looking girl in fact. But now i'm starting to wonder whether my ED is a physical or mental problem.
I considered the other day that it's down to the condoms I used - Durex performa, which are thicker than average condoms, designed for guys to last longer, so I thought that might be why I couldn't feel anything and went flacid. So I thought I may try a thinner condom, like FetherLite, next time. But she said we won't try to have sex for a while, and I know it's as damaging to her as it is to me, so I don't want it to happen again.
However, it seems that even during masturbation, I'm never FULLY hard (until ejaculation), but I think this has been going on for a while. I only occasionally get full erections during masturbation. I'm VERY confused, and not sure what to do. Help?
Now she's my girlfriend, and we tried having sex again last week. We hadn't planned it, we were just making out and it happened. I was again quite hard (though not fully hard), and she was on top of me for a while, it wasn't really doing anything for me, and I couldn't feel much. I eventually just went soft after about 5 minutes. Naturally she thinks I don't find her attractive and that she doesn't turn me off, and she was even in tears about it when we talked about it the next day. I've obviously done what I can to convince her that is not that case, she is a gorgeous looking girl in fact. But now i'm starting to wonder whether my ED is a physical or mental problem.
I considered the other day that it's down to the condoms I used - Durex performa, which are thicker than average condoms, designed for guys to last longer, so I thought that might be why I couldn't feel anything and went flacid. So I thought I may try a thinner condom, like FetherLite, next time. But she said we won't try to have sex for a while, and I know it's as damaging to her as it is to me, so I don't want it to happen again.
However, it seems that even during masturbation, I'm never FULLY hard (until ejaculation), but I think this has been going on for a while. I only occasionally get full erections during masturbation. I'm VERY confused, and not sure what to do. Help?
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From a smart phone so bear with me.
You need to check with your physician. Everything you are describing sounds like what most people go through toward the beginning of their sex life, ie feeling uncomfortable and being unable to perform, except the masturbation part. That is slightly alarming. I DO NOT recommend taking any pills like viagra and such without a doctor's consent and recommendation. It is very possible that this a psychological problem and not a physical problem, and at 19 viagra can be harmful to your sexual organs (ie the whole 4 hour erection and such).
I also recommend trying to elongate the time it takes for you to masturbate. It is very possible that cutting yourself just short of relieving yourself could get your mind used to being fully sexually involved.
It is very possible that this is a physical problem as well, so the first thing I would do is see a doctor. It's the smart thing, safe thing, and the only way you're getting a sure answer for your condition, whatever it might be.
Also just realized its two years after the post, so you probably figured something out (or at least I hope so). Yeah, still going to post the comment.
You need to check with your physician. Everything you are describing sounds like what most people go through toward the beginning of their sex life, ie feeling uncomfortable and being unable to perform, except the masturbation part. That is slightly alarming. I DO NOT recommend taking any pills like viagra and such without a doctor's consent and recommendation. It is very possible that this a psychological problem and not a physical problem, and at 19 viagra can be harmful to your sexual organs (ie the whole 4 hour erection and such).
I also recommend trying to elongate the time it takes for you to masturbate. It is very possible that cutting yourself just short of relieving yourself could get your mind used to being fully sexually involved.
It is very possible that this is a physical problem as well, so the first thing I would do is see a doctor. It's the smart thing, safe thing, and the only way you're getting a sure answer for your condition, whatever it might be.
Also just realized its two years after the post, so you probably figured something out (or at least I hope so). Yeah, still going to post the comment.
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