I don't know if I have a problem or whatever but I feel like I really need to inform myself.
I have some problems cumming during intercourse with my girlfriend. I don't really do it without a condom (only did it twice) because i'm way too paranoid about pregnancy (even though she's on the pill...actually i'm one of those rare couples where the guy is more paranoid than the girl about this pregnancy thing). Also, I don't cum into her when not using a condom for the same reasons. Yet it seems to work since I feel it may be coming so i pull out and finish on her in a reasonable amount of time.
However my problem starts with a condom. I do feel it most of the time, I do get aroused and have pleasure...but I simply never cum. First I though it was the condom so I switched to a super thin one. More sensation but no cumming. Then I thought I maybe last very long with one so I tried using lube since my gf would'nt stay wet long enough for me to finish...but I still don't cum.
Does someone have any possible explanations? Or any tips? Could it be normal to not to be able to cum during intercourse with a condom? Or maybe am I not patient enough? I really hope to find something since my gf even proposed me to simply go to pulling out (while she's on the pill of course) without a condom for me to be able to finish but I simply don't feel secure enough when it comes to pregnancy. And I don't want this to affect her as well.
Thank you for the help.
I have some problems cumming during intercourse with my girlfriend. I don't really do it without a condom (only did it twice) because i'm way too paranoid about pregnancy (even though she's on the pill...actually i'm one of those rare couples where the guy is more paranoid than the girl about this pregnancy thing). Also, I don't cum into her when not using a condom for the same reasons. Yet it seems to work since I feel it may be coming so i pull out and finish on her in a reasonable amount of time.
However my problem starts with a condom. I do feel it most of the time, I do get aroused and have pleasure...but I simply never cum. First I though it was the condom so I switched to a super thin one. More sensation but no cumming. Then I thought I maybe last very long with one so I tried using lube since my gf would'nt stay wet long enough for me to finish...but I still don't cum.
Does someone have any possible explanations? Or any tips? Could it be normal to not to be able to cum during intercourse with a condom? Or maybe am I not patient enough? I really hope to find something since my gf even proposed me to simply go to pulling out (while she's on the pill of course) without a condom for me to be able to finish but I simply don't feel secure enough when it comes to pregnancy. And I don't want this to affect her as well.
Thank you for the help.
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I hope this helps, I happen to have a similar problem. Problem cumming during sex with a condom. And I also sometimes think
that I am more paranoid about pregnancy than my girlfriend is. She has also suggested that maybe we try sex with out a condom
and the pull out method. And if your like me at all you must think that your kinda missing out on a feeling that a lot of people get to
have. You want sex to feel as good as its supposed to but your a worrier. Here is my view in this subject, In a perfect world, a guy
could have sex with a girl with out having to worry about the consequences. Your not ready to have kids and that makes sense. What
your doing is over thinking it. And you have one luxury that I don't, Your girl friend is on birth control. witch by the way
is actually more affective than condoms if used correctly..... (birth control) 99.9% is more than (condoms) 97%.
You have an alternative to fall back on. I wish i was in your shoes. I can't tell you to stop warring but, aside from the condom, warring and the human minds preoccupation with other things can prevent both parties from feeling pleasure. thus making it very difficult to reach a climax. You need to try to free your mind and simply enjoy this amazing thing. And assuming you are booth healthy and she is on the pill, You can do it with out a rubber. if you can achieve both of those things you will have a fulfilling experience. I really hope this helps.
that I am more paranoid about pregnancy than my girlfriend is. She has also suggested that maybe we try sex with out a condom
and the pull out method. And if your like me at all you must think that your kinda missing out on a feeling that a lot of people get to
have. You want sex to feel as good as its supposed to but your a worrier. Here is my view in this subject, In a perfect world, a guy
could have sex with a girl with out having to worry about the consequences. Your not ready to have kids and that makes sense. What
your doing is over thinking it. And you have one luxury that I don't, Your girl friend is on birth control. witch by the way
is actually more affective than condoms if used correctly..... (birth control) 99.9% is more than (condoms) 97%.
You have an alternative to fall back on. I wish i was in your shoes. I can't tell you to stop warring but, aside from the condom, warring and the human minds preoccupation with other things can prevent both parties from feeling pleasure. thus making it very difficult to reach a climax. You need to try to free your mind and simply enjoy this amazing thing. And assuming you are booth healthy and she is on the pill, You can do it with out a rubber. if you can achieve both of those things you will have a fulfilling experience. I really hope this helps.
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