I am 28years old still a virgin. I have tried several times to break my virginity but the hole is very small for penis to enter inside it. My two boyfriends have tried heard but no result. I don't know if there is any drug I can take to make my vagina to expand for penis to enter. Please, I need your help because it gives me a lot of concern or is it my age that makes it to be so.
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I do think you're right to consider taking medical advice (seeing a doctor would be necessary for any drug prescription).
Whether it will help is another matter.
Ultimately, at 28yrs, you're an adult, so you can choose to consider doing the following at your own discretion.
You say very small, but - I hate to be pedantic - you don't give any measure.
You're also old enough to shop online, or visit an adult store - there are some 'for women' chains now that are a little less seedy.
You do not even have to go that far, as many household objects will suffice.
You would probably be well advised to get a water based lubricant, if you do not experience this as a pleasurable (naturally wet and lubricated) activity.
As long as the object you are contemplating inserting into your vagina is clean, smooth (no sharp edges) then barring the normal discomfort associated with the rupture of the hymen, you should not be at risk of damage. Ultimately, millions of women do this every day, for their own pleasure.
Starting with something extremely thin, and comfortable - such as a round-tipped pencil (not the writing end), you can begin to explore just how tight you are, and find a size that is comfortable. Once you are reassured that you are ok with this activity, it will be a case of increasing the size of the object - the smallest vibrators are approximately the diameter of a lipstick.
At some point, if you are feeling comfortable and brave, you will reach a point where the hymen resists, and you cannot proceed without either stretching or rupturing the hymen. At this point, I presume that is what you want.
Continue to increase the size gradually, until the hymen finally stretches and or ruptures. Allow your body to recover for a day or so, and then you now have a new diameter or opening, which from your description will still be tight.
From here on out, you may experience the discomfort of stretching, just as you would in ordinary exercise stretching, but not sharp pain, or bleeding, beyond your normal period of course.
When you can accomodate a 'standard' dildo - I'd suggest one of the flexible, soft materials, though the harder styles may increase the stretching - of about 1" (2.5cm) in diameter (about the size of one of the modern stand up toothpaste tubes), you should find that you are able to accomodate your next boyfriend.
Hint: no disrespect to (eastern) asians or blacks, but the former have a reputation for being rather smaller, and the latter rather larger. You may in your case like to turn the eye of an (eastern) asian, just don't tell him why! I doubt he'd be too happy!
If your doctor has a more appropriate recommendation, (s)he will of course tell you. You're by no means the only woman to have experienced this, so don't despair, and while you're waiting, there's plenty you can enjoy with your partner without penetration, obviously. Take care.
Whether it will help is another matter.
Ultimately, at 28yrs, you're an adult, so you can choose to consider doing the following at your own discretion.
You say very small, but - I hate to be pedantic - you don't give any measure.
You're also old enough to shop online, or visit an adult store - there are some 'for women' chains now that are a little less seedy.
You do not even have to go that far, as many household objects will suffice.
You would probably be well advised to get a water based lubricant, if you do not experience this as a pleasurable (naturally wet and lubricated) activity.
As long as the object you are contemplating inserting into your vagina is clean, smooth (no sharp edges) then barring the normal discomfort associated with the rupture of the hymen, you should not be at risk of damage. Ultimately, millions of women do this every day, for their own pleasure.
Starting with something extremely thin, and comfortable - such as a round-tipped pencil (not the writing end), you can begin to explore just how tight you are, and find a size that is comfortable. Once you are reassured that you are ok with this activity, it will be a case of increasing the size of the object - the smallest vibrators are approximately the diameter of a lipstick.
At some point, if you are feeling comfortable and brave, you will reach a point where the hymen resists, and you cannot proceed without either stretching or rupturing the hymen. At this point, I presume that is what you want.
Continue to increase the size gradually, until the hymen finally stretches and or ruptures. Allow your body to recover for a day or so, and then you now have a new diameter or opening, which from your description will still be tight.
From here on out, you may experience the discomfort of stretching, just as you would in ordinary exercise stretching, but not sharp pain, or bleeding, beyond your normal period of course.
When you can accomodate a 'standard' dildo - I'd suggest one of the flexible, soft materials, though the harder styles may increase the stretching - of about 1" (2.5cm) in diameter (about the size of one of the modern stand up toothpaste tubes), you should find that you are able to accomodate your next boyfriend.
Hint: no disrespect to (eastern) asians or blacks, but the former have a reputation for being rather smaller, and the latter rather larger. You may in your case like to turn the eye of an (eastern) asian, just don't tell him why! I doubt he'd be too happy!
If your doctor has a more appropriate recommendation, (s)he will of course tell you. You're by no means the only woman to have experienced this, so don't despair, and while you're waiting, there's plenty you can enjoy with your partner without penetration, obviously. Take care.
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