So I started dating a really nice guy few weeks back, he's been so sweet and everything but he's never tried anything like sex wise. At first I thought he was just shy but asked him about it last night and he eventually said he was worried cos he has a really small one I told him that don't matter and he should stop being so silly lol
So he takes his underwear down and he has this really tiny little one, so embarrassing cos I kind of giggled felt awful but couldn't help it. He went home right after. I still really like the guy but not sure how to handle this - he hasnt texted me yet today.
Any girls dealt with a boy like this? what did you do? any advice would be really good xd
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You asked, "any girls dealt with a boy like this?" Like what? What did HE do? I can think of something you did.
How dare you laugh at him. What do you think he can do to change the size of his penis, or the color of his hair, or his skin? NOTHING. You just showed him how immature you are.
What if he laughed at you for the size of your breasts.
Grow up Sara. He trusted you enough to show you his penis and you giggled. You're the one who needs to apologize to him for your actions.
You embarrassed him. Accept some responsibility here.
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Hi Sara i agree with Dan that you shouldn't of giggled at it and that you should txt him and say your sorry. In sure if you had one breast a lot bigger than the other you would feel hurt if you took your bra
off and your boyfriend giggled at that!
You could also be quite surprised when he gets an erection at how much it might grow. You should never judge a book by its cover. Even if it doesn't grow that much when erect there are positions that will give him more depth, what you need to do is give him confidence and trust in you and think yourself lucky because not many girls get to teach a guy what to do hun
Just call him and say your sorry and you really didn't mean to giggle last night and would if like to start over again.
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thanks both. I know i handled it bad....just surprised me...and felt awful for giggling. I texted him and said sorry and i feel really bad but he hasnt replied yet...really hope i can get things back to how they were i dont even care that he's small...shouldnt make any difference
ill update if/when he replies
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I do hope you can get things sorted out and get back together again hun.
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Dear Sara
I know you feel bad about the way you reacted, and I think you are looking for help to deal with the way you reacted and its consequences. I think it is good that you have recognised what you did, and are seeking advice. I can understand your embarrassment, but I think you can handle the situation if you are prepared to be honest an humble with him.
You need to let him know that your giggle was one of embarrassment; not that you were mocking him. Let him know that you like him, and that you still want to be with him. You need to make the first move. He probably thinks you despise him, despite saying sorry. So contact him in person if you can. Make the effort to see him, and be prepared for his reaction whatever it is, and don't let it put you off. You could phone him if you cannot meet him in person. If you have to text him again, don't mention anything about what you saw (unless he does). But tell him you still want him. Promise not to discuss personal details with your friends.
Just for clarification
- "he has this really tiny little one" What size would you say? Was it erect or flaccid? Why did you think it was small?
- "not sure how to handle this" I take it you mean you mean "handle this situation"
- "Any girls dealt with a boy like this?" I assume you mean dealt with a boy badly like this.
I hope this helps.
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This is DJWolf. Sorry. I couldn't log in. Everybody here is totally right. Shephere999, Totally right. Your bf has probably put up with a lot of this in middle school or Jr. High (around there already). I know what he's going through. I'm in M.S.. I here kids talk about the size of there wang everyday. The greef from a girl he probably likes probably hurt him worse than kids from school years. Sara_uk, suprise him. Go over to his house and do something for him. Whether it be sexual activity, date, apology whatever. If u can't get ahold of him through F.B. or Txting. See if you can find the places he hangs out at. Just act like you "accedentally bumped into him and be like "funny seeing u here". Sorry if this seems cheesy. -DJWolf
PS. Moderators of Steady Health, can you help me with my account?
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