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This is gonna me tmi and I'm sorry lol but me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and up until recently our sex life was amazing! But recently he really hasn't been trying to turn me on as much as he used to he used to touch me and rub on me and I would do it to him and for the past few days he just expects me to get fully wet and turned on by just touching him like hell put my hand down his pants and I'll start touching him then I have to ask him to touch me inside my pants and hell put his hand down my pants and were watching a movie btw and hell just randomly stop touching me and then rub me for a few seconds then just randomly stop again and so last night I finally had enough and decided that everytime he randomly stopped touching me I would do the same and this went on for about 5 minutes and he took his hand out soni took mine out and he asked why'd you stop?!?!?! So what should I do??

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Personally, I think you should mimic the phrase "why'd you stop" right back at em! Serious, if you two have been dating for two months, have had sex, you should feel comfortable enough around him to communicate with him & try to talk about how you feel. Guys may not like talking things over & whatnot but don't be too gushy or go on & on, just be straight up with him. Plus, if he's truly into you, he should want to make you happy.. as well as you should, him; that's the whole meaning & adventure behind the ever-so exciting entanglement between lovers :) Sorry if my response was to no avail in answering your question, I just wanted to let you know my viewpoint & that I hope all goes well for you!
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I think its more the case that they spent to little time getting to know one another before they leapt into having sex so now things are starting to get a bit the same but because they dont really know one another the dont really know how to communicate!
What they need to do is start again and just get to know one another first so they can talk and tell each other what feels good.
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Well we've gotten very close we know each others deepest darkest secrets and he's at my house or I'm at his almost everyday so we knew each other before having sex lol it just kinda irks my nerves that he seems like he doesn't WANT to touch me
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Well I didn't know as to whether or not they had known eachother prior to 'dating' or what. But if that's the case, you helped her much more than I had. You also shed some light on my own relationship life because me & my man have 'talked' for a little more than 3 years off & on. We've only hungout a couple handful of times & we're not in a relationship.. still. Yet neither of us has really talked to anyone else when we weren't & we always drifted back to one another somehow yet we've only had sex a few times & hungout a decent amount. We both once said its strange cause neither of us has ever felt so strongly for someone before, let alone without have been seeing them on a daily or whatever. It just feels blah now that we do see eachother, like the conversation. I don't even feel like I know his favorite color anymore.. if I ever did. So I, am going to go ahead & heed your advice for my own personal life, thankyou! :D
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Your welcome Sara
It doesn't matter if you have been together for 2 months or 20 years there is always something you can learn from your partner.
I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 8 years now and there is still things we are learning about each and not just sexually either.
A relationship doesn't have to be based on sex all the time sometimes me and my girl just like te sit at good and watch a movie and cuddle.

I hope your relationship works out for you as sometimes when like you are with your man a few words me advice works wonders :-)

When i first got with my gf she was 13 and i was 14 and we never had sex until she was legal age of 16 in the 3 years we had plenty of chances as she was always staying at my house and when my parents stayed out she would even sleep in my bed.
When we finally did have full sex it made it that much more enjoyable just because we waited.
Any way i hope this help both me you and gives you something to think about :-)
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