Im 13 years old and in he 7 grade i have a huge crush on a guy and i think he likes me to. Every time he talks to me i blush really bad and my face turns completely red. the other day i heard him talking about me and when i got all red to his friends, so i pretended to not hear him. I can't flirt.( im ro shy) and i can't stop blushing. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!
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It sounds like this blushing is a reaction that you can't control. Every time he talks to your or talks about you, you get all red in the face, whether you like it or not.
So, instead of dealing with that, why not deal with the root cause. Why not do something about the boy? Try one of these methods to at least find out what the guy thinks of you:
The direct approach. Pull this guy away from his buddies for just a moment, and ask him what he thinks of you. Don't reveal how hard you're crushing on him, unless he says that he really likes you back. If he likes you too, proceed with the tweeny romance.
The indirect approach. It's a lot like the direct approach, except instead of asking him what he thinks of YOU, ask him if he's available, looking for a girlfriend, and all that. If he has a working brain, he should be able to figure out what you're after. Tween lovey-dovey wubby wuv.
The mediator approach. Get one of your friends or one of his friends to find out for you. Again, if he likes you back, tweeny shtick.
The "forever alone" approach. This method is the worst one possible, and is only an option if you don't have a spine. Basically, by choosing this method, you are dooming yourself to forever look at him from a distance, and you must simply put up with that infuriating blushing. Just take my word for it, you want one of the other methods.
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The poster is 13 years old and you're giving the advice of "ask him if he's available…" !!
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