Hi. I'm really really sorry this post is so long, but I want to tell all of the information so the reader will have the appropriate evidence to help me, so i apologize in advance, but thank you for still reading and responding.
My girlfriend is 16 as am I. On New Years Eve we had unprotected sex, but didnt finish. It was both of our first times, and so we didnt know exactly how to do it. So we tried, but when I was inside of her, it hurt her. I was concerned for her because it hurts me when I see her in pain or discomfort. As a result, I was not very erect or turned on when I was inside of her. We tried for about 5 minutes, but after 5 minutes I decided that we should stop because I was worried about her. I did not have an orgasm or cum, and I don't typically have much precum when I masterbate.
About a week and a half after that night, she got her period. It was normal length, but only light bleeding. Since then, she has not gotten her period. She is under alot of stress, but she always is, so im not sure it if it is affecting her period.
She has told me before that she is irregular, and skips months sometimes, (it has happened about 4 times before) but these skips have only been one month, not 3 like this.
She has no pregnancy symptoms besides the periods. She has gained 1.5 pounds since new years eve, but Im not sure if that is just normal or not.
Also, she has taken two pregancy tests - one last month, and one a week and a half ago, and both were negative.
Is she pregnant? Please help, I really need it. Thank you sooo much.
P.S. We have decided to stick to fingering in the future because it is much safer in preventing pregnancy and we bought condoms just in case for me to wear so that even when fingering theres no chance of any fluids passing. However, about a month ago, I was fingering her for the first time and it was with her clothes on, and she started to bleed. Could this be because she hadn't broken her hymen yet? because I remember it was hard to tell if I was actually in her on news years eve or not because I wasnt very erect...
Sorry this may be in the wrong topic area, but no one on the other topic forum is answering and I really need an answer.
Thank you so much.
My girlfriend is 16 as am I. On New Years Eve we had unprotected sex, but didnt finish. It was both of our first times, and so we didnt know exactly how to do it. So we tried, but when I was inside of her, it hurt her. I was concerned for her because it hurts me when I see her in pain or discomfort. As a result, I was not very erect or turned on when I was inside of her. We tried for about 5 minutes, but after 5 minutes I decided that we should stop because I was worried about her. I did not have an orgasm or cum, and I don't typically have much precum when I masterbate.
About a week and a half after that night, she got her period. It was normal length, but only light bleeding. Since then, she has not gotten her period. She is under alot of stress, but she always is, so im not sure it if it is affecting her period.
She has told me before that she is irregular, and skips months sometimes, (it has happened about 4 times before) but these skips have only been one month, not 3 like this.
She has no pregnancy symptoms besides the periods. She has gained 1.5 pounds since new years eve, but Im not sure if that is just normal or not.
Also, she has taken two pregancy tests - one last month, and one a week and a half ago, and both were negative.
Is she pregnant? Please help, I really need it. Thank you sooo much.
P.S. We have decided to stick to fingering in the future because it is much safer in preventing pregnancy and we bought condoms just in case for me to wear so that even when fingering theres no chance of any fluids passing. However, about a month ago, I was fingering her for the first time and it was with her clothes on, and she started to bleed. Could this be because she hadn't broken her hymen yet? because I remember it was hard to tell if I was actually in her on news years eve or not because I wasnt very erect...
Sorry this may be in the wrong topic area, but no one on the other topic forum is answering and I really need an answer.
Thank you so much.
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it sounds unlikely that she is pregnant.
I am sure she, like you, is stressed about it though.
make sure, even if you masturbate near her that u dont cum anywhere near her vagina , or finger her after you have cum, untill u have washed your hands.
its common for periods not to settle down to a regular pattern in younger girls.
I am sure she will get her next one soon.
Hormones can take a while to settle down.
If you want to enjoy sexual pleasure with her but not run the risk of pregnancy, you may find sucking her nipples and fingering her clitoris, (not inside her vagina, so she wont bleed) will get her excited.
if she is willing , and you do this for around 10 to 20 mins, for some girls it brings them to their climax and they have an orgasm.
It doesnt always work for some girls til they are older, but if u try gently it may be a pleasureable experience for you both.
if you want to know what an orgasm is like for her, i will explain more if required
I am sure she, like you, is stressed about it though.
make sure, even if you masturbate near her that u dont cum anywhere near her vagina , or finger her after you have cum, untill u have washed your hands.
its common for periods not to settle down to a regular pattern in younger girls.
I am sure she will get her next one soon.
Hormones can take a while to settle down.
If you want to enjoy sexual pleasure with her but not run the risk of pregnancy, you may find sucking her nipples and fingering her clitoris, (not inside her vagina, so she wont bleed) will get her excited.
if she is willing , and you do this for around 10 to 20 mins, for some girls it brings them to their climax and they have an orgasm.
It doesnt always work for some girls til they are older, but if u try gently it may be a pleasureable experience for you both.
if you want to know what an orgasm is like for her, i will explain more if required
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thank you sooo much.
yes, we are both incredibly stressed about our situation.
I know it is a bit weird of me to ask, but you were correct in that when I suck her nipples she goes crazy (same with kissing her neck), but every time I do this, even for many minutes, it just makes her moan, but I am not sure she is having an orgasm. Even when I finger her, she can't have an orgasm...how do I know when she is having one and how can I make her have one?
i read online that if I rub a sort of rough area of skin inside her vagina on the upper part, it is her g-spot and it makes her have a really good orgasm, and I found that area when I was fingering her before; but even then, I'm not sure if a) that is what is causing her to not have her period(like I damaged something), and b) if she is actually having multiple orgasms when she is moaning or none at all. In fact, she told me that she's not sure if she is having an orgasm either, it just feels amazing.
I really appreciate the help.
Thanks soooo much for responding.
yes, we are both incredibly stressed about our situation.
I know it is a bit weird of me to ask, but you were correct in that when I suck her nipples she goes crazy (same with kissing her neck), but every time I do this, even for many minutes, it just makes her moan, but I am not sure she is having an orgasm. Even when I finger her, she can't have an orgasm...how do I know when she is having one and how can I make her have one?
i read online that if I rub a sort of rough area of skin inside her vagina on the upper part, it is her g-spot and it makes her have a really good orgasm, and I found that area when I was fingering her before; but even then, I'm not sure if a) that is what is causing her to not have her period(like I damaged something), and b) if she is actually having multiple orgasms when she is moaning or none at all. In fact, she told me that she's not sure if she is having an orgasm either, it just feels amazing.
I really appreciate the help.
Thanks soooo much for responding.
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you are right there is the g - spot which again works for some women , not for others. depends on their anatomy.
if you can find it and it doesnt hurt her or make her bleed then you use a beckoning action, curling your finger down. but again at 16 she may not have devleloped her sexuallity enough to have an orgasm yet.
do you know where her clitoris is?, i
f you can suck her nipples and gently rub that , she will get good feelings.
the going crazy from nipple sucking can get too much on its own , because she is being stimulated , but unfullfilled.
rubbing the clitoris gives direction to the nipple stimulation and feels better for her. sfter maybe 10 mins , her hips will probably buck up and down involuntarily , because its like her body is trying to have sex.
continuing to touch her clitoris and suck nipples will probably make her vagina move up and down too, and her clitoris may dip up and down .
if she can stand it and you keep doing it , she may reach her climax.
I `ll describe orgasm in detail in next post, short of time now, ok .
if you can find it and it doesnt hurt her or make her bleed then you use a beckoning action, curling your finger down. but again at 16 she may not have devleloped her sexuallity enough to have an orgasm yet.
do you know where her clitoris is?, i
f you can suck her nipples and gently rub that , she will get good feelings.
the going crazy from nipple sucking can get too much on its own , because she is being stimulated , but unfullfilled.
rubbing the clitoris gives direction to the nipple stimulation and feels better for her. sfter maybe 10 mins , her hips will probably buck up and down involuntarily , because its like her body is trying to have sex.
continuing to touch her clitoris and suck nipples will probably make her vagina move up and down too, and her clitoris may dip up and down .
if she can stand it and you keep doing it , she may reach her climax.
I `ll describe orgasm in detail in next post, short of time now, ok .
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yes, I do know where her clit is, and I have rubbed it and everything, but it actually doesnt do as much as rubbing her g-spot or sucking her nipples. Should I still do it anyways?
also, should I still be scared about her being pregnant? Since she hasnt gotten her period, I can't but be scared.
Sorry I'm bombarding you with questions, but thank you so much for answering.
also, should I still be scared about her being pregnant? Since she hasnt gotten her period, I can't but be scared.
Sorry I'm bombarding you with questions, but thank you so much for answering.
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the best thing to do to clear up uncertainty is to have her go visit a doctor, they will know better than us and can administer more accurate tests. in my amateur opinion though she probably isn't pregnant, still see a doctor to be sure though.
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My girlfriend still hasn't gotten her period....its been just over 4 full months since we had the "kinda" unprotected sex.
I'm still really confused/scared....
Whats wrong with her???
Please help
she has no symptoms still, but has not gotten her period either. Shes only sixteen pleeeeease help.
I'm still really confused/scared....
Whats wrong with her???
Please help
she has no symptoms still, but has not gotten her period either. Shes only sixteen pleeeeease help.
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i honestly think she should see a doctor, as should always be the case with any persistent problem that we can't come up with a clear answer for.
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