To start off... i'm a virgin and i've never done anything except been fingered and given handjobs to my boyfriend. Ok so a few days after my period my boyfriend was fingering me (he's done it before... nothing bad has ever happened) everything was fine, relatively painless and later i noticed blood in my panties. I was worried as hell but i didn't bleed anymore so i figured i was fine. It's been over a month and i've yet to start my period. I figure it's most likely stress delaying my period but theres a still a part of me thats thinking its because of what happened a month ago. I know it seems... stupid and i sound horridly inexperienced but i'm just a paranoid person by nature. If anyone could give me any advice i would appreciate it! Even it it's to tell me that im worrying over something stupid and im just late.
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Dear Tshirt and jeans,
stress, hormomes, and diet can all affect your periods, so dont worry too much.
your bf needs to be careful fingering you if you are a virgin,
it can be easy for some girls to bleed easily. some don`t, all depends on your anatomy, and exactly where and how he pokes.
ideally , you need a lot of sexual stimulation first before he goes inside your vagina with his finger,
then you will be moist , and his finger should slide in easily with no discomfort or pain for you.
A way of stimulating you that is successful for many women is for him to suck your nipples and gently rub your clitoris for around 20 mins if need be, untill you get close to feeling that you are about to orgasm.
this requires a lot of nipple stimulation for a long time. most men only do it a bit, but eventually , your hips will start to move involuntarilly, and your clitoris will start to dip up and down too.
by this time your vagina should be very miost, and he should be able to finger you without any problems. if he keeps up the sucking of nipple, and gently playing with clitoris, you should reach your climax, and have an orgasm.
At that time your vaginal muscles will clench rythmically 6 or 7 times, like in a spasm, uncontrolled by you , then it will be all over and you can relax.
your bf would probably need a hand job by now , because he will be aroused at watching your vaginal responses as you climax and orgasm.
stress, hormomes, and diet can all affect your periods, so dont worry too much.
your bf needs to be careful fingering you if you are a virgin,
it can be easy for some girls to bleed easily. some don`t, all depends on your anatomy, and exactly where and how he pokes.
ideally , you need a lot of sexual stimulation first before he goes inside your vagina with his finger,
then you will be moist , and his finger should slide in easily with no discomfort or pain for you.
A way of stimulating you that is successful for many women is for him to suck your nipples and gently rub your clitoris for around 20 mins if need be, untill you get close to feeling that you are about to orgasm.
this requires a lot of nipple stimulation for a long time. most men only do it a bit, but eventually , your hips will start to move involuntarilly, and your clitoris will start to dip up and down too.
by this time your vagina should be very miost, and he should be able to finger you without any problems. if he keeps up the sucking of nipple, and gently playing with clitoris, you should reach your climax, and have an orgasm.
At that time your vaginal muscles will clench rythmically 6 or 7 times, like in a spasm, uncontrolled by you , then it will be all over and you can relax.
your bf would probably need a hand job by now , because he will be aroused at watching your vaginal responses as you climax and orgasm.
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