Alright so i've been fingering my girlfriend for about two weeks okay? So everything has been going good until tonight she came over wachted some TV and i started to finger her we did it for about 2-3 hours and kept stopping and going again because i found a spot that made her jump and make alot of noise so i thought i was doing a good job.. Then when we took her home she texted me and said it kinda hurts to pee and he vagina hurts. I was scared because when i was fingering her i noticed some sort of swelling in the vaginal lips cause it was hard to get my finger in there, I'm really freaked out will someone answer me?
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fingering for 2 hours is too much.
as your gf now knows.
you have irritated her delicate tissue.
the swelling of her vaginal lips could have been because they were sexually arousd.
the vaginal lips and clitoris all swell when excited, because they fill with blood, just as a male penis does..
you may have hit her G=spot, which is what made her jump. if it is stimulated properly, it can lead to her having her orgasm.
or maybe she was reaching her orgasm several times, but you just over did it, and she needs a rest for her body to recover.
although some women can have multiple orgasms, its not a good idea to overdo anything.
imagine your gf manually stimulates you, and you ejaculate. then 10 mins later does it again. then keeps doing that for 2 hrs. your body will freak out cos its not meant to be abused that way.
if you want to have some sexual pleasure with your girlfriend, and bring her to her sexual peak, so that she has an orgasm, I suggest you suck her nipples, and play with her clitoris, for about 20 mins.
that should bring her to her climax, and you can watch her clench her vaginal muscles rythmically as she orgasms.
but then leave her alone to calm down after, so that her aroused body can return to normal.
it takes a while to learn techniques that work well, and all womaen are diffferent in their responses ,
so go careful and lets hope you both enjoy the experience.
as your gf now knows.
you have irritated her delicate tissue.
the swelling of her vaginal lips could have been because they were sexually arousd.
the vaginal lips and clitoris all swell when excited, because they fill with blood, just as a male penis does..
you may have hit her G=spot, which is what made her jump. if it is stimulated properly, it can lead to her having her orgasm.
or maybe she was reaching her orgasm several times, but you just over did it, and she needs a rest for her body to recover.
although some women can have multiple orgasms, its not a good idea to overdo anything.
imagine your gf manually stimulates you, and you ejaculate. then 10 mins later does it again. then keeps doing that for 2 hrs. your body will freak out cos its not meant to be abused that way.
if you want to have some sexual pleasure with your girlfriend, and bring her to her sexual peak, so that she has an orgasm, I suggest you suck her nipples, and play with her clitoris, for about 20 mins.
that should bring her to her climax, and you can watch her clench her vaginal muscles rythmically as she orgasms.
but then leave her alone to calm down after, so that her aroused body can return to normal.
it takes a while to learn techniques that work well, and all womaen are diffferent in their responses ,
so go careful and lets hope you both enjoy the experience.
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