hi,, m married for four monyhs, but m not able to perform a full coital act. m having this hypersensitiveness in that region that i cant enjoy it. my hubby is tired of trying. m very sick of this issue. help me,,
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Dear ryakrish
I am sorry to hear of your problem. But you are not very specific for a doctor!! "hypersensitiveness in that region". It is natural to be sensitive, particularly the first time, but where exactly is the "hypersensitiveness"? Is it in your vagina only, or also other parts of your vulva? Have you ever orgasmed? Is it that your clitoris is ultra sensitive? Is the size of his penis an issue? Perhaps you need more lubrication or an orgasm first. How far do you get in foreplay?
If you want to discuss this further, we need to get into more detail. We can talk in private if you prefer, although in public others can benefit.
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thx for ur reply.. i managed to overcome my hypersensitiveness,, bt nw ended with a bigger problem. v find it very difficult to break my hymen.. nd m planning for a hymenotomy tomorrow... m really depressed of al this. hope this issue ends.
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A tough hymen could well make intercourse difficult and painful, so I hope the procedure goes well for you. It usually does. This is not an unusual condition, and a simple corrective procedure. You should be happy now. Presumably as you are having an hymenotomy rather than an hymenectomy part of your hymen will be left so that you can still have a rupture when your husband first penetrates you. I hope all goes well tomorrow. Let me know how you get on please.
BTW How did you overcome your hypersensitivity?
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oh god,, this one kills me. i have to wait for four more days, as i got my periods. i did some exercises using a lub gel,like stimulation.. adviced by a gynaec.
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Glad you've got the hypersensitivity sorted anyway. I was thinking that if you could describe your 'exercises' in more detail it might help other women also.
I wait to hear from the outcome of your hymenotomy: that the procedure was successful clinically, and that not only were you able to consummate your marriage, but that you can enjoy the physical intimacy with your husband that intercourse can yield.
With warm wishes.
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