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Hi,

I would suggest telling your friend what happened, tell her that you enjoyed it, and ask her if she's ever thought of trying such things.

In my experience the best way to experiment with that kind of stuff is to tackle it head on, most people at your age have at least put some thought into a bisexual experience, maybe even masterbated to it.

If she is interested she wont have a problem with it.

Also, If you two make out, and you want to take it to the next level, I would suggest playing with her breasts, and sliding your hand down towards her vagina, she might be more interested then she even knows!

best of luck, and enjoy ;-)

Hunnybunch,

I'm a little confused here, but I think what you're telling us is that you just made out with a friend and have concluded from that one experience that you are now bi- .... and that you are torn, because you want to tell your Best Friend (also a girl?) but fear that it will change that relationship as well.

If that's all true, I've got a few different suggestions for you.

First, I would NOT tell your Best Friend nor anyone else that you are Bi.... because one experience does not set it in stone. You may very well be bi, and that may become more clear over the coming years... however, you're pretty young to be making those kinds of lifestyle choices right now.

Some people KNOW, and some people experiment and make a choice how they want to live...and there are others who experiment for a while, and then settle into one relationship or another, or change over time.

If you can live without proclaiming to the world what your orientation is, I would try to wait for a while. Maybe you'll have more experiences. Maybe you'll date. Maybe you'll be more sure when you get to college, or out into the work world.

But it's pretty early to be spreading the word on how you feel and how you will want to live in the future.

Give it some time and keep seeing others... of both genders.

Dear, Hunnybunch

I'm 13 years old. I have known I was bi for three years now and I can tell you its totally normal to know that you're bi at a young age. Now if your serious about your best friend start by telling her that your bi. See what her reaction is to it. Study her reaction is important. When I told my best friend I was bi she was calm and was angry at all. Well except for the fact I didn't tell her until two years. But because of her reaction I also know she's striaght. Another thing that may possibley happen is your bff if she is bi or a lesbian may come out and tell you. I do how ever reccomend that you tell some one what your feeling. Take it from my experience its not fun keeping feelings inside.