I'm 16 years old, and I have given oral sex to another guy, and vice versa. I didn't enjoy it; not when I was receiving or when I was doing. Also, I watch more gay porn than straight porn, but, lately, even gay porn has been getting very boring. The reason I don't watch straight porn as usual is because I find it very demeaning to women. Now talking about women, I've had a girlfriend, and I really liked her, and right now, I like another girl. I don't know if I'm gay, bi, straight, or if I was just curious. I know that when I have sex with a woman, I'll enjoy it, and, also, I find girls very attractive, and, I imagine myself being in a relationship with a girl, but never with a man. So, I'm really confused right now, plus, I think this may affect any relationship I'll try to build later in my life with a GIRL, not a MAN! Please help! Thanks!
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It sounds more like you are curious than gay. That's not necessarily a bad thing. Exploring your sexuality is how you learn about yourself and others. So you tried it and didn't particularly like it. You indicate you like girls better than men. I think that pretty much sums it up. If I had to place a label on you, I call you straight.
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Thank you! But, would this affect a new relationship with a girl I try to date? Would I tell this girl that I had a gay experience in high school?
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It's possible it could affect your future relationship with a girl. Until you know the girl better, I wouldn't mention it. Perhaps if you two become serious, you might consider telling her of your past relationship, though it might still cause a problem. Then again, she may be open and receptive to such adventure and curiosity in you past life. It's a judgement call that only you can make.
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I'm 15 and for the last six months have been "experimenting" with my best friend.I don't consider myself gay,but have got a real thrill out of it.
I'm not frustrated and much more relaxed.Apart from the sexual release, it's so good to put your arms around someone and be gentle.
Go try or you'll never know.
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