I know that probualy impossible but really don't want to. I'm planning to lose my virginity, to my boyfriend of 1 year. Yes I've had him finger me and I climaxed a couple of times. The feeling is amazing and yes I've giving him 2 or 3 blowjobs. Now we want to try the real thing. We both agreed on using a condom, but I CANT get the pill because my mom will find out I'm getting sexually active. (I'm 17) soo that's not an option. Either way, I really don't want to bleed, in fear it'll scare him and me...will it hurt? Will I be able to enjoy it after my hynem (or how ever you spell it) is broken? Is there ways I can prevent bleeding during my fist time? Please help me...I really want to lose my Vitginity soon..
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Hi Sara,
You may or may not bleed the first time. There is no guarantee that you will. You can also bleed AFTER your first time. You can't really prevent it.
It happens. You know it can happen. He should understand it may happen too. You don't have to be scared.
Yes it can hurt but if you both take your time it will be more comfortable for you. Don't rush things and use plenty of lube. He shouldn't expect to go in quickly or deep. Talk to him. Let him know if it hurts.
You may be sore for a few days after having sex too. That's normal. You've never used some of these muscles so they can be sore.
Good luck.
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