Hi there,

Okay, this may sound sort of foolish, but I just wanted to post on here to get a peace of mind. 

So the last time I had sex was on November 30th, 2012 (I am not on the pill, but we did use a condom).  Since then I have consistently gotten what would appear to be my period all at the time I'm supposed to, but these periods have been a lot lighter than normal (lasting 3 days as opposed to my normal 5-6).  Overall, I have taken 14 home pregnancy tests, and 1 blood test done by the nurse at my college (done at what would have been 2 months into the pregnancy.) Every single test resulted in a negative.  I have gained a tiny bit of fat around my lower section, but not enough to affect the way my clothes fit or anything like that. I would think at this point (what would be roughly over 3 months into a pregnancy by now), I would find the ability to relax, but I still can't for some reason.  (This was my first time having sex, so I'm sure my paranoia is just taking control of the situation.)  I would really appreciate some insight on the topic though.  

I've already explained the whole situation to my mother (who's had 4 kids in total), and she sees absolutely no reason for me to even think I'm pregnant. That reassured me for a bit, but it's hard to keep the negative thoughts at bay.