Hi Im 14 and hes 17 and we wanna have sex but i feel like he sees me as a kid sometimes people are always judging others for having sex so early is it ok tho ?
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Hi there,
There is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex but it is much to early ! perhaps you could try dry sex, foreplay etc... but SEX (intercouse) should be a very special experience to a girl and shouldnt be taken lightly, should be shared with a man that you love and are very comfortable with and you should know that he will stay by your side through everything.
Also in australia this will be classed at Statutory Rape. because he is over 16 and your under 16 this is illegal. I mean if no one finds out about it, it is fine but if you were to be caught, fall pregnant or get an STI someone will find out that you had sex and he could be fined, charged, and even imprisoned. And honestly it isnt worth the risk. I did it and he got into big trouble.
There are so many other things you can do that are as good as sex but not illegal. But i would suggest waiting until your atl east 16 ... I didnt and i regreted it and you will be proud of yourself if you wait for the right person and make it very special. And if your 17 year old bf wants to have sex, dont be scared to say no... if he loves you he will wait !!! :)
Best wishes :) if you have any other questions just ask :)
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Perfectly okay. You are NOT a kid. You are 14 - an adolescent. That means an adult in the making. So think maturely, understand the need to be prepared ie make sure you use protection and understand about STDs.
Sex is perfectly normal and a natural biological need.
Yes people and society will judge. But should we care about those idiots? No, dont worry about them, be discreet and have your fun. If you like him and he likes you, thats all that matters. Have fun.
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