can you people suggest some tips for the intercourse for the first time?
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i am planing to have sex with my boy this wednesday for the first time i am of 20 yrs... hes of 21 what measures should we people take so that we can have a comfortable sex with less pain and more pleasure??
can you people suggest some tips for the intercourse for the first time?[/quote
Foreplay, foreplay and more of the same.
If you are still a virgin, plenty of foreplay will really help when the time comes for actual penetration.
If you are dry, you are obviously not turned on enough, or you are nervous or worried. Speaking of worried, you and bf have planned to consumate your relationship this wednesday, have you chosen your birth control? Getting pregnant can stick in the back of both your minds, making intercourse not so much fun.
Set the tone. Make sure you are in a spot where you won't be interupted.
Thinking that someone will walk in you is a downer, tho some get excited thinking that they might get cought.
Showering is very important, absolutly before and possibly after. No one wants a stinky first time. Body odor can really take the romance out of the moment.
Set the mood. Patience and understanding is key for first time lovers. He may be fumbling and nervous, maybe he will have a hard time getting an erection, he may cum to fast, he may not cum at all. You may be shy and not want him to go to certain spots, you may not want him to see you naked, you might want the lights off, whatever, it's all okay. First time out is never perfect, this comes with experience. You don't know what he likes so you have to ask, and the same goes for him. You may have a certain spot that is "off limits" tell him.
He has to be gentle with you. You are a virgin and so is he. You may feel some pain, you may bleed a bit, and on the other hand, you may not feel any discomfort at all. Men really don't feel any different when they loose their virginity. You may cry a little after, this is normal. You made your decent into womanhood, your right of passage.
If it's not so good the first time, it may not be any better the second time, or the third time, but it will. You both have to figure out what feels the best for the both of you and work with it and improve on it. Once you get that part down, the two of you will be able to venture out a little further with your sexuality and try different things.
The missionary position is usually the position for brand new lovers. He can support himself above you while you sort of give him some direction. Use your hands and arms to bring him in closer or to stop him for a minute, he will pick up on what you want by your body english.
If it hurts, stop for a second then try again, but make sure you tell him. Remember, it may be clear sailing and penetration could be a breeze, then it's fun from there on.
Don't let him neglect your clitoris, this is what is going to get you fired up. If he forgets, do it yourself. The possibilities are endless, but for now concentrate on this being your first time together and take it slow.
Don't forget your birth control/condoms.
Have fun and be safe.
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would he come to know this thing that i have done sex before...???
if i wont tell him any thing about my past relation...??
if i have done only once with my bf??/
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i need more discussion in this case...!!!
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