Okay so Im like extremely in love with my boyfriend and he really wants to have sex with me. I want to but im scared. Ive heard alot of stories about it hurting really bad and it bleeds and smells alot so i dont know what i want to do. i really love him and all but im scared about scaring him with blood or some nasty smell. i love him so much and i just want to make him happy. so does it hurt alot on a scale of 1 to 10 and how much do you bleed and is there anything he could do so that it wouldnt hurt as much or bleed that much, im not worried as much about paid as i am about the bleeding.
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Hi! How old are you? How old is your boyfriend? Those are the 1st two BIG questions before anyone should be giving you advice on your situation. Give us that answer - and I'll see how we can help you!
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were both 14 and please dont say were too young im not saying im going to do i just really want some advice
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I don't think I would say you are too young! I do think that there are many other things younger people can do sexually without actually having intercourse that are a lot less risky in several ways! Masturbating each other is a pretty safe place to start. And you can progress from there as you are comfortable!
The first time you have sex it can hurt...or it might not... It really depends on you. You can also bleed...or not. It depends on if your hymen is still intact or not. I am pretty sure that your first time will be much more comfortable for you if you work up to full sex first!
I hope that helps you out a little bit...if you want to know more please let me know!
The first time you have sex it can hurt...or it might not... It really depends on you. You can also bleed...or not. It depends on if your hymen is still intact or not. I am pretty sure that your first time will be much more comfortable for you if you work up to full sex first!
I hope that helps you out a little bit...if you want to know more please let me know!
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And...PLEASE...if you decide to do something more MAKE SURE you use a condom EVERY SINGLE time...please!!!
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of course i would i would absolutly hate for something bad to happen thats another reason why im scared to do it
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