Im so scared to do anal again it brings me to tears but my f

Guest over a year ago

Hello, im 16 years ld and i did anal with my boyfriend a while back and it realli hurt i was crying. my boyfriend wants it more and more but it really hurts me. Im scared he will leave me for someone who can handle it :'( :'( Please i dont know what to do

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beeef26534 over a year ago

Dont do anny thing you dont want to do if he loves you he will understand. ;-)

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helpisontheway6784 over a year ago

If he loves you he wouldn't hurt you. DONT let him do ANYTHING you are not comfortable with.

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rosemoonlight over a year ago

Darlin' if he loves you he wont force you into things that are painful for you.

Sit down and talk to him about it. If he really cares about you, he wont force you into anything.

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pouts3892 over a year ago

I was scared that would happen with my bf too, but finally i decided that if he cant accept the fact that i dont want to do it, then he really doesnt love me, and its not worth it.

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thedoctorisin28473 over a year ago

Screw talking to him. If he knows it hurts you and doesn't care, you're better off without him.

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Guest over a year ago

Well you are 16 so chances are your not going to be together forever anyway. Some girls just can't do it. Tell him you will do it again if he lets you do him with a sex toy. Just to see if he likes it. Should solve your problem I would expect.

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Guest over a year ago

I can tell you that I have found, if you put a vibe on the clit while you let him get what he wants...it takes your mind off the pain!!!!!! :P

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Guest over a year ago

i had anal sex with my boyfriend and it was really painful doing it doggy style then we decide to try a new position ever since then i love it.. i suggest u find a comfortable position like lying on your back or side etc.. but if u really don't like it or if it is really painful for you then don't do it i am sure if he cares about you he will understand

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goosengander58505 over a year ago

a lot of girls find anal sex paiful the first few times we do it. it gets better the more you do it. one thing i did though was to practice with a carrot to start and worked up to a cucumber. i also bought a fake penis and practice. now that i am comfortable doing it my bf and i can try new things with it. i also learned from the experience that i am allow to be assurtive and in this case insurtive. i make my bf take it if he wants to give it. he resisted at first but a finger or two lead to his submission and now we both get the rewards. when the toy goes in him he gets bigger and harder and lasts long enough for me to cum. now we have his and her toys and he tells me he really understands why i made him go slow at first. when he cums it is like a bucket full. he doesnt wear a condom when he does me anally and when he ejackulates in my anus it feels so warm and i can feel it going deep inside. i know if i do it with a different guy in the future i am going to do him too or he wont go there.

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cattranswannabe58308 over a year ago

take it slow start anal masturbation that may help you get used to anal sex.

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Guest over a year ago

I wished more girls had the same idea as u becuz i like it but i wouldnt tell most women that i liked it how would i get a women comfortable with it how would i ease them into it

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kim over a year ago

foreplay is good, take your time making yourself turned on first with the fingers up so you can put a finger in the butt as you stir a little in there, and at stores you can buy anal haze which is a sedative for her ass, I use a butt plug before he enters it's a little sore it to but it's okay when you have it and trust me it gets much better when he shall come in, and remember to say that he must take it slow at first so it will be okay. ;-)

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Guest over a year ago

Give up the ass keep taking it in you ass every day and night two or three times a day until you get use to it!

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Guest over a year ago

im 18 now, and when i was 16 i was having a similar problem to you...my bf also really liked doing anal and wanted it everytime....and it really hurt me and didnt feel good at all. to make it worse i knew...becuz he told me...it turned him on and made him really hard to see that i was in pain and sometimes crying. i know it sounds weird and stuff, but if you love him and he really likes it, maybe you should just do it for him...use lube....i used to take tylenol extra strenght b4 we had sex....i know that when i thought about it back then i thought that maybe there are things that he does for me that he doesnt really like....not just sexually.....and he does them anyway becuz he loves me......so i let him do it...keep doing it....we're still together...he still loves anal and we do it almost every time....and it still hurts me and doesnt really feel good...but i do it

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