I am 13 years old (in year 9) but i'm very mature. My boyfirend is 15 (in year 10). I love him to bits and he loves me. But, he lost his virginity quite a while back before i knew him. And he asked me 'when i wanted to loose my virginity who would it be to?' of corse i said him because i truly do love him. I don't have the greatest life as me and my whole family are always at eachother's throats but i'm the one who always gets pushed away, left out and upset. Being with him makes me feel special, and i deffinately would like to lose my virginity to him. Me and one of my close girlfriends were discussing sex and she told me about her friends saying how it really hurts and you bleed. :'(I'm truly scared. I certainly do not want to bleed all over him. Is there anything that will prevent pain and bleeding?I have thought this through and kind of feel ready for this. I need all the information of having sex for the first time as this is worrying me. I'm not being pressured what so ever. He has told me that it is totally up to me when we have sex. I'm not like following the trend and that because most of my friends are still virgins and quite a few don't even have boyfriends and get embarrassed when i talk about boys and sex. I just want to be with him all the time. I love him too much to let this get in my way. please help...thank you! xxxxxxx %-)
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First of all, not everyone experiences pain and bleeding during sex. Typically, the bleeding is because the hymen is being torn/broken during sex. This causes some ripping which is where the bleeding is from. If your hymen is already broken, you may not experience pain or bleeding. The hymen can be broken in other ways than having sex. So you should see if you can get a mirror and look down there to see if its broken or not already.
Also, using lubrication, being aroused, and going slow will all help make the experience more enjoyable. Make sure to use protection! ;-)
Also, using lubrication, being aroused, and going slow will all help make the experience more enjoyable. Make sure to use protection! ;-)
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i was in the same sitituation as u just a few weeks bac....at the time i was 16 n hav celebrated my bday since and my boyfriend is 22 and from egypt so there is a small bit of a langauge barrier there but he asked me one nite if i liked sex and i told him out straight that i was stil a virgin n he understood...so we took it vry slow n he kept askin me if i was k so wen u decide to go the whole way wit ur boyfriend just take it nice and slow n if u dont feel comfortable just tel him n he shud understand and just remember to relax n remember 2 use a condom xxxxx
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Some girls bleeed more some less, if you already had your 1st menstruation it will hurt less or it won't
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What has the world come too. You were definatley to young then and now.. your still WAY to young. :-|
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It doesn't hurt, your first time.
Most likely there won't be blood, because your hymen might be torn from playing sports or something of the sort.
If it's not, then it may be slightly more uncomfortable, but it usually doesn't feel bad.
Feels really weird though.
HOWEVER!
Do not have sex with him.
Do NOT.
Dang it kid I've seen way too many people in your situation, I know where this leads.
I don't care if he's a friggin angel incarnated, or if he makes you feel happy and special, or if you're in love with him.
Don't have sex.
You are vulnerable at this point.
Yes I sound like a ranting mother but I don't give a sh*t.
If your feelings are the same in two years, then loose your virginity to him.
If not, if you've drifted apart or broken up, you were never really in love.
Please, trust me on this.
Dang it kid I've seen way too many people in your situation, I know where this leads.
I don't care if he's a friggin angel incarnated, or if he makes you feel happy and special, or if you're in love with him.
Don't have sex.
You are vulnerable at this point.
Yes I sound like a ranting mother but I don't give a sh*t.
If your feelings are the same in two years, then loose your virginity to him.
If not, if you've drifted apart or broken up, you were never really in love.
Please, trust me on this.
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LISTEN TO HER !!!! She is speaking the truth a lot of my friends have been in your place be careful!!!
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