hi,

i would like to say to say that i masturbate  two to three times a day, or less for some days, but from the age 14 or 15. and from the age 24 i started drinking . but after  having drinking habits though, i used to masturbate till date, i found the erection is quite ok, but i feel laziness overall these days, may be due to drinking habits and masturbating, the laziness is little more more than earlier, But i avoided smoking.  Two days back i got a chance to have sex with my known girl, i was very excited and well prepared, but when i started with her, i found tbat my penis was getting erected, i dont know it is due to impotency of my habits or  not proper coordination from the girl. I was totally confused . the place where i was with the girl was not at home, i like your suggestion and advice, is it due to impotency or ED.  Now i feel that i am able to stop drinking and masturbatiing , to be a firm man and ready for my marriage in future

and one more question, does our penis will erect on its own when we start our sexual course, or its  girl job to make our penis arouse to higher level. and i used to see my semen after masturbation, is used to be whitish and thick at one time , and watery for another time.

i prefer your gud advice