Learn how to pleasure yourself correctly

Hi Scorpio,

There is no "correct" way to masturbate.  Everybody has their own way of doing it.

About the best you can do is relax.  Turn off the phone and any other distraction.  Take your time and make it last.  Try new things too.  Use a lube if you never have, switch hands, try some "toys", rub your nipples, all that stuff.

Have fun.

I'll give it a try sometime, thank you, respectively scorpio.

Hi Scorpio18:

Medic-Dan has given you good advice.

Masturbation is good because it provides for the need to ejaculate semen, is fun, pleasant, enjoyable, safe, healthy, normal, harmless, contributes to prostate health, relieves sexual tension, and pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Masturbation aids sleep when done before bedtime. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Masturbation leaves one with a feeling of relaxation, contentment, and well-being. One cannot get an STD from masturbation.

Masturbation should be done in a place where one has privacy. Favorite places are in the shower or in bed at night.

There is no lower or upper age limit for masturbation. Some pre-school boys masturbate and some elderly people masturbate at least into their late seventies. Foreskinned boys usually learn how to do it earlier than unforeskinned boys.

Foreskinned guys and unforeskinned guys usually masturbate differently.

The movable, internally-lubricated, nerve-laden erogenous foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation. Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It failed to stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable. How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned. If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. It is not necessary to retract the foreskin. The outer foreskin glides over the inner foreskin. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations. Foreskinned males must be careful not to tear the frenulum.

Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours.

Thank you for your advice, yes it is painful with the foreskin as I get older! It makes my sex drive low.

If your sex drive is low, then you may have low testosterone and need a testosterone supplement. See your doctor for a test.

If you are foreskinned and it is painful to retract your foreskin, then you may masturbate by pulling your foreskin forward away from your body.