I am in my mid 20s and I am having erection issues. I am happily married and I have never had issues getting or maintaining an erection until about a month ago. I used to be able to have sex, wait 15 minutes, then have sex again. Now, I can't even get a full erection. I do believe it is psychological, but I have no clue how to fix it. It all started with me masturbating in the shower, then my wife out of the blue wanted to have sex. I could not get an erection and was extremely embarrassed. I was very tense at the moment and was feeling very bad. I shouldn't have masturbated but it was a while since the last time we had sex. That night I had a tough time sleeping. Ever since then I have had trouble getting an erection even when receiving a blowjob. Why do I think it is psychological? It only happens with my wife. I can get an erection alone. I also have an issue with being a minute man and that takes a heavy toll on my sex life. I also think that may play a part in the problem. When I drink, I can easily get an erection and I am guessing I "let my guard down" and I am very relaxed. How can I overcome this problem?!! I am afraid it will begin to take a toll on my marriage!
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The best way to defeat a psychological issue like this is to consider going to therapy. A tehrapist would at least be able to assist you in something like this and would be able to help restore your sex life. Would you be amenable to that?
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